ok women,I know when you have anal sex for the first time your suspose to feel pain.But what If you had it more then once.Is it the same pain everytime,Is there less pain or dose the pain go away?
If you go just shoving your dick in there, yeah, it's gonna hurt. If you work up to it, with time the pain will lessen. You need patience, dear.
If it is hurting, then the receiver is not ready. Time, lube, and patience. Use a vibrator to keep the pleasurable feelings going. I always feel some initial pain upon the penetration that quickly becomes pleasurable--and the vibrator on my clit ensures a climax for me.
I somehow thought that after the first time, things would be stretched and it would be easier. But even after many times, it still hurts if things aren't taken slowly. And I ALWAYS have to be in control of the initial penetration or it hurts. Dunno how much of that is because of the hemmorhoid left from childbirth though... (sorry if that's TMI)
Here's a question I got for you anal loving girls out there. Is it hard to do #2 after a while of doing that? I'm asking cause that's the main concern with girls I've been with.
You shouldn't have any pain at all during anal sex. Just like you shouldn't have any pain at all when you have a poo. Your asshole can accommodate some big things.
as already said in another post, i used to engage in anal regularily with an ex. it hurt like hell for the first like 15 times haha but eventually it didn't hurt as much unless we hadn't done it in awhile. however, i hadnt done it in a year and now its like i never have,. OUCH!
When I first had anal with my wife we took it slow and with plenty of lube, It didnt really hurt her cause we took it slow and easy. After a few times it became much easier! Its also easier for her the first few times if she is on her back with her legs over your shoulders. When she's used to having a cock in there then you can do it with her on her front.
Never any pain. Never force anything. A womans asshole should envelop your cock and suck it in, not being forced to accept your cock pushing it's way in. Slow and easy, lots of lube, oral, anal massage and fingering gets things warmed up just fine. You would be surprised at what you take once you are relaxed.
My ex and I used to have anal sex all the time... It was weird with her though, she loved the pain of the situation... even though there could be some serious consiquence from really rushing into things... She loved the hard entry, it's what she asked for...