It fucking pisses me off how you help so many fucking people but when you need help they are extremely reluctant and when you can't help them all of a sudden your freindship is void !!! now what do you do when they come back a year later asking for help? do you be polite as if you have been friend forever and just help this person or do you point out they just dissed you and they should fuck off!
yeah but i am a nice person .... and well .. your not no but seriously we were once really good friend and then he went and paid me out and was a dick.. so you know it is hard to forgot a long time of friendship
I know exactly how you feel. The only thing you can do is tell them how you feel. When my ex-best friend (of five years) came to me, I told her how lame it was that after all the shit I helped her through, she pushed me away to hang out with drunks and start doing meth. I told her that if she had asked me for help before she acted like I didn't exist, I would have given it to her, but she hurt me too badly for me to ever be able to trust her as a real friend anymore. Our friendship has never been the same, but we know now (that we talked things out a bit) that if we ever get stuck somehow, we'll do what we can to help out. But we don't hang out as close friends any more. Now if we run into each other we are cool. I know it may not be easy to say some stuff, but some things just need to be said and out in the open. Honesty.....what a concept
sorry to hear that. in my school, they ae all girls and total snobs.. and if you try to help them up after they've fallen , then they'll just slap your hand away and be like, "piss off! I CAN DO IT MYSELF!*
