virgin girlfriend/ big penis

So yeah, I guess the title says it all.
My girlfriend's still virgin and I've got a big penis and I've never done it with a virgin before. We tried to have sex yesterday but I was kinda scared that I was going to hurt her or something so we just had oral sex... "it" wouldn't go in anyway. so what do you guys think I should do?

 

Have a proper conversation with your girlfriend, and ask her how she feels about having sex. If her vagina is quite tight, then maybe you could work together, and try and find her most sensitive area in her vagina.

If she takes the time to masturbate by herself, and stimulates her g-spot or clit, or if you asked her what got her sexually excited, then she might get all horny and wet, her vagina will just open right up.

Be open with one another, and watch some porn videos if you need to. If you both knew your needs, and what made each other tick, then you'd have some great sex.

Hope my advice helps.

 

Hi, from one massively hung guy to another; I think you should lube a lot. Works always for me, even with virgins and Asian girls.
Hope this helps.

Love, bird.

 

more foreplay
more lube (even saliva is better than nothin)

does she finger herself ever during masturbation? Use tampons? Might be that she still has her hymen intact, and if it's a stubborn one it's gonna be a pain to break it during intercourse

 

Don't worry, no penis is too big for a vagina. Vagina's are extremely flexible organs, and they can take all penises.

Given that most men who say they have a big dick often have a rather average dick, it adds to us saying: don't worry.

Virginity has nothing to do with how loose or tight a pussy is. There are virgins with huge loose vaginas, and there are girls who've had hundreds of monster penises but whose punani is still extremely tight.

In short, much ado about nothing.

 

I'm calling BS on that. Vaginas have different sizes, just like penises. On average, they should be compatible, but if a penis is "extremely" large or the vagina "extremely" small, or both, there could be problems.
The penis might not go in fully then, you just need to be careful then.

My first time I was really tight too, the girl really needs to relax (lube helps too) and just take it slow.

 

I agree and I disagree with your statement and I will explain why:

I am not extremely HUGE by any means I am somewhere between 7 and 8 I would guess 7 and half in length but I have a HUGE girth, probably the same in circumference...

The first time I fiancee actually saw me in all my glory she pleaded with me that I be gentle with her, and that she knew I would hurt her...

She wasnt far off, with my length as it is I can "bottom out" whenever I want to in almost any position, and I love hitting her cervix when she will let me...

THAT part can not be changed, in short that can be damaging to a woman...

Girth however, can be accomodated by ANY woman from ANY man...

Think about it this way: a woman is meant to pass a baby through the birthing canal, and even though there are hormones to help with this, the majority of them are to dialate the cervix, not to stretch the opening of the vagina itself...

My point: length is much more a factor of pain than girth... my fiancee and I had issues the first three times we had sex... the first time, I wouldnt even call it sex, all I could do was get the head in, it sucked, even though she still pleased me with a HJ...

The other two times I was able to get in, but she was stretched to the max, after the third time, her boday became acustomed to me, and we have yet to have problems since then... then again, I am a HUGE believer in making sure you go above and beyond the call of duty in foreplay... so she is more than ready and waiting for me to enter her...

Long story short:
length hits the cerivx: not much you can do except find positions which avoid it.
Girth: a woman becomes acustomed to a certain size...

 

shouldn't be a problem whatsoever

plenty of slippery lube and a vibrator on the clit will make her feel so good that the size of your penis will be a welcome addition--you have to make sure she is enjoying it trememdously. If you make sure she gets to orgasm every time you have sex she will be always ready, willing and able.

 

I completely agree with what you say, I should have been more specific, I was just going against the weeping generalisation than ANY penis can fit...
Although I will admit, I'm pretty tight down there, I don't think I could painlessly take a penis with huge girth, unless I stretched for weeks on end

 

I may be weird here, but I find it such a turn on when a man says; "I was afraid I would hurt her"..

 

Reading that was rather exciting for me.

 

Same here... My boyfriend won't have sex with me cos I'm a virgin and he's afraid he'll hurt me... or so he claims... it's weird... most guys would be rather excited by having the opportunity to fuck virgin pussy, right?...

 

get yourself a thick jelly dildo and youd be suprised how soon you get used to it, much less than weeks Im sure...



my fiancee' got used to me in a week, then again, we were in that: "we are rabbits, screwing a copule times a day" phase...

 

:& Im glad I could make your day

 

He is either a virgin himself, or he loves/deeply cares for you, or both?

I would guess the first part, and he is nervous about performing up to the "expected level"

Remember us men are very visual creatues, and are designed to get half way there by visual stimulation, which is why as a general rule we like porn much more than women...

ANYWAY, back on topic: make him feel secure that it doesnt matter how long he lasts the first time as long as he pleases you, and all will work itself out...

 

He's not a virgin, I'm sure of that... For now I'm giving him blow jobs and he seems to enjoy them And i don't have a problem with giving them so we're ok ...

 

yo...pussies let BABIES slide through...your dick aint no 7.5 lbs baby...get some lube, eat the bitch out a little, and you will be fine...trust

 

haha. Give it to her hard see what happends lol jks.

 

this si seriously the best way it's been said.
it's going to hurt anyways, just don't rip her apart.
slow and steady, not quick like a band-aid. for real.
just relax.

 

i had this prob on my first time
the guy was HUGE
and i MEAN huge
we solved it just by getting me REALLY REALLY horny
lol
he started by finger fucking me and just kept doing it deeper and with more fingers til i was alllll wet and stretched out lol

try it it works