my wife sucks at giving head

Talk to her ....maybe ..suggest you watch some porn for "research."

 

Despite what u read hear on these Love and Sex threads, unforutunately there are a number of women who don't like giving head at all. Some of them won't even try because they think its gross. So u have to be realistic with ur expectations and then decide how important is that to u. My wife rarely does it......rarely. But, its not that big of deal to me. It never has been. But that's just me.

Paul

 

hmmmm

when she does something good, tell her. or maybe play a two way game where you have to take turn in doing what the other says, who knows, you might have something to learn yourself

 

Great idea RetroGroove_Grrl...

By the way you look great in the red dress..

 

aww thanks. I have three red dresses
I love them all equally

 

http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?p=2601740#post2601740

See....

 

Well I would say...........porn. Watch porn together. maybe she will pick up some tricks to use.

 

take 69 stype

 

Hey, your wife sucks at that? Don't feel bad, my girl has braces. So, if you don't want to hurt her feelings just be like "Honey lets get a sex book." Don't say exactly that of course, but you'll find one that tells you how to do good. Look for the part about head, say this looks good, why don't we try it? Or something like that. Don't do exactly this, go with your instinct, this is something like what I'd do. Again just a man-to-man suggestion from someone who knows where you're at. Good luck.

 

lol ok ok, stop me if somebody has said this but when you said "my wife sucks at giving head" was the pun intended?

 

I'd be more concerned if while giving head, she's not sucking.. But that's just me..

 

hah!!!!!

 

I agree with what most other people have said - talk to her, but be nice about it. Do things to let her know what you like and don't like, give subtle hints. If I do something that my husband doesn't particularly like, I know, because he just seems incredibly bored. Now, we've been together long enough to know what he likes and doesn't like.
He also told me that he had never gotten off from getting head, and my automatic response was - "Well, that'll change really soon!" because I had ALWAYS been told that I was good. So, after giving head just being "foreplay" for a while, I decided one night that he had better give me direct instructions until he got off from it, and he did, and it worked. If you've never gotten off from getting head from her, suggest that she maybe take instructions. Tell her that you know it's hard to get you off from it, but you'd really like to try, and see if she'll take instructions so she knows exactly what you like and don't like.