anyone knowing anything about relationships...

I am engaged. I am in love. Recently my fiance stopped calling me. I dont know where he is, or why he isnt calling me. His dad said he was at a friends house. He is the sweetest person I have ever known and I feel I have not treated him well enough. I feel I have hurt him, maybe for the last time. I do not try to hurt him. I do not WANT to hurt him. I am willing to do everything in my power to fix this situation and change my attitude. He is not home. There is no way to get in touch with him. And I am so afraid he is planning something very bad. I cannot go without him. I love him that much. And he was head over heels for me. We had the BEST relationship anyone can imagine. But somehow I have fucked up and he has disappeared. I am so afraid. I love him....What should I do? Or rather, what can I do to cope until I talk to him? And what should I say when I do? Any advice would help.

 

When you do talk to him tell him how much he means to you and if you have not been doing so make sure you treat him how he deserves to be treated. I have recently broken up with my wife and we were head over heels for each other at the beginning but we stated to take each other for granted and ended up drifting apart. You always have to be aware of your partners feeling and work to keep your relationship strong.

I hope everything works out for you, but if it doesn't stay strong as your heart will heal.

 

When you say you are afraid he is planning something bad - what do you mean by it?
Obviously this isn't a good relationship if he left without telling you why or caling you.

 

Sorry to hear this. We can't tell you want to say, much less, think if we have no idea what you're referring to, what "bad" means, what you did.

Sometimes we learn a little too late and relationships are sacrificed. Tell him how you feel but if he does want to walk away, then perhaps he has good reason to?

 

You know, the great thing about me is that sometimes I read the whole post. When you wrote that you didn't know why I felt bad. When you wrote that you messed up this time then I knew you had a clue why. When you started going on about how you were going to change then I knew you knew exactly why he left. Either go visit him in person or find someone else. You sound like you don't like I'm sorry to come out of your mouth. I'm sure you know where he works and hangs out and if you really mean it then go apologise.