Girls, lately lots of people, mainly other girls, have been asking me if I've ever came from a guy, from my vibrator, that i just bought like 2 weeks ago, and how do I know if I came? I was once told that if you get super excited and feeling really good, and then afterwards you're done, and don't want to do anything anymore, then you've had an orgasm... in that case, I guess I had had one... but, then what about girls who "squirt" or ejaculate all over the place? anyway, I just told them I had came from a guy before, but didn't want to go into details... but maybe i haven't? hmm... anybody want to share experiences?
My bf recently told me that there is a difference between cumming and orgasming. I didn't know this, but he kind of made sense. While having sex you have a build up of good feelings, then it peaks and you feel a release, that is cumming. An orgasm -he says- is when during that release you have an intense pleasure sensation go through out your body, more so than what ou feel when you just cum. Some girls squirt when they cum, I don't. Its just one of those things that some ppl do and others dont. I don't know if my bf is right about what cumming and orgasming, but if he is I don't think I've ever had an orgasm. But I certainly do feel a build up of pleasure then a release. -CB
what if your man is inexperianced, but you don't want to tell him he hasn't given you an orgasm? you definatly can cum without orgasming, so i guess yeah they are too different things! Sorry I can't help more, and i don't even know if that made sense!
As an experienced man with many lovers in his past and present, more than 100, I KNOW when a girl has orgasmed. If you don't know whether or not you have, then you haven't. Some orgasms are bigger and better than others, it depends on how aroused you are. As far as girls who ejaculate, that is rare. As well as ejaculating, the orgasm is bigger. As I said, 100 lovers or more. Only one of those ejaculated. Final myth. A man can't MAKE you come. As much as we would like to. What needs to happen is you need to let go and relax. Go with the pleasuring. Help him by showing him what makes YOU feel good. Every woman is different, and we men need to know which parts to stimulate and how much pressure to use and so on. Unless we get verbal or non verbal feedback, we aren't going to make it happen. You may need to tell him, but some good body language (moaning, squirming) when he hits the right spot will help as well. It will also loosen you up and you will find yourself getting aroused. Then you will come and you will know it. Finally, masturbation is a great learning tool for orgasm. Find out what turns you on and practice till you come. Then you can show and tell your lovers. My wife masturbated quite a bit before marriage. Even though she was a virgin, she was orgasmic from very early on. Mark
oh i can squirt thats what we call it its fun and feels soooo good,ive been able to do it since i was 18 , love it
well besides what everyone has already said, when I cum my vaginal muscles contract really hard like crazy....partners say I squeeze the hell out of um yeah so I dunno thats what happens to me along with all the other feelings everyone else mentioned.
wow, thanks ppl, you're lots of help cbrmale, you've been with over 100 girls and married a virgin? interesting... and thanks for your input I can relate to the muscles tensing up and stuff... and actually one time I had drunk sex with a guy and the next day he told me he felt me squirt out... apparently it really turned him on but I've never done that when I can remember... weird, but I am totally relaxed when I'm drunk so maybe it makes sense? anyway, thanks everyone
The whole act is orgasm, orgasm is every moment, just a little tiny touch between fingers can be an orgasm when you learn how to feel another person, and merge with them through the sensual playground, then the actual orgasm is just a part of it or not, it doesn't really matter is what I am saying! Enjoy it all, meditate on every sensation and ride it towards the infinite, sex is sacred and beautiful!
gangaprince, I love what you wrote it puts the whole act into perspective... it doesn't really matter if you "O" or not... thanks
Tigerlily, I was able to teach her a lot. I never told her 100, I suggested more than 20. Even so, she initially found my experience a little threatening. A little hard to get her head around. But that was a long time ago. Cbrmale
