Now that it's over, I'm still missing him. but it's funny--I try to think about what I'm missing and the answer is all I'm really missing is the sex. If I could have taken that one guys advice and just treated him as a sex object that would have been good. He pretty much treated me like shit and it's pretty easy to see that now that he's moved out. He's was so fucking hot that there's no way not to miss the sex. But I regret not ending this thing maybe six months ago. Cuz that's when it was over. (he just moved out 3 weeks ago). He had me wrapped around his finger. But there's a lot of water under that bridge and it makes me think of the MB20 song Back2Good There's no getting back to good.
:-( break-ups suck. just keep thinking of all the reasons why your better off without him oh when I broke up with my first girlfriend, I wrote her this really long letter I never sent. I never intended on sending it. But it helps to get it out on paper, makes it easier to move on
Break ups always suck big time. I guess, there is a general agreement on that one. So, he was hot and the sex was awesome. Two good reasons to put up with lots of problems, in my books. Yet, there is a line that should never be crossed. Yup, if you need the time to grieve over the loss, do so. Give yourself a couple of days, when it is ok, to think and say to yourself. 'I miss him. I miss having sex with him. It won't be that easy to find someone to replace him in my life.' Once your 2 days are over, ban those thoughts from your mind and re-invent yourself on the spot. Move on and get going. He is now a great memory of the past to be cherished at times but no one to look forward to. Good Luck, KD
