I caught that it was a joke, haha. And for the record, i'm 19, but he's not. he's much older. but he's in the past now. It's not something psycological. It's not that i've never came before, it's just that it takes alot and i've ever been the only one with the patience to see it through. I still enjoy all of the sexual activities I partake in, even if I don't come. It's not very frustrating, it's just the way things are. I'm not saying things will never change, because it is true that i don't have years and years of experience, but as of now that's how things are. you bicthes need to chill out.
Sorry opium, wasnt targeted at you hon... Always remember more men than it is publicly believed REALLY want to please their women... for myself when I was young it was for a VERY selfish reason... I knew girls talked, and it worked for me, the 2nd and 3rd girls I was ever with were friends of my first g/f and they initiated the contact with me because I tried to make sure my first g/f was pleased each and every time... so they wanted to see for themselves... She told her friends, and later her friends came calling: Pardon the pun...
My Fiancee' is the same way, she needs direct clit stimulation, this is what works for us: So long as your b/f is long enough, have him give you a good amount of oral foreplay (or use a good amount of lube) have him enter you (you on bottom him on top), then place your legs together, now have him place his legs on the outside of yours, every thrust will push on your mound, which should give you the clit stim you need... Good luck, and I hope this position helps you!
It always resorts to a spelling war... cmon dudes, get over it as for you mister Jester, you made a huge generalisation in this thread suggesting that not being able to reach orgasm is uncommon for women. So eat some pie amigo
Check out this post by me - http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=165218&page=2&pp=10 [2nd down] (for vaginal and clitoral orgasms, I suggest getting to 3 clitoral using the first technique orgasms then doing the second technique or stimulating your g spot) and http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=165218&page=4&pp=10 [Bottom of page] (just your plain old clitoral stimulation) If there's no change come back in 10 days lol.
LOL... I misspelled mine on purpose notice in the post to his reply I both BOLDED and italicized the word...
Good god, any woman can learn how to orgasm. Barring a forced clitorectomy in north africa there are no women who can't orgasm only women who don't know how. buy and read For Yourself : The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality by dr. Lonnie Barbach. It'll teach you how to get over your fear and loathing of your twazzer, how to orgasm through masturbation and then after you learn good and proper how to bring yourself to orgasm finaly how to teach your lover to bring you to orgasm. I've been giving this book to friends and lovers for more than 20 years and it always works because it's about aproach rather than technique. Haha, the dykes at the women's health bookstore hate and know me as I must've bought and given some 30 copies of this book over the years. Probably they resent me as a man for fixing "broken" women but I ain't the one who broke 'em and, hey, the book's written by a woman. Ultimately it's the woman who heals and fixes herself, I'm just giving them an 8 dollar book of which they're not aware. Hell, if the bookstore dykes knew how much I enjoy giving women facial they'd probably take out a contract hit on me Why do and have I give so many women this wonderful book, even to women with whom I have no sexual interest? As my personal gift to humanity. For if a woman can't come she'll never learn to enjoy sex for its own sake, and such a woman will ultimately always become a bitch.
You still havent said shit about being incorrect about women NOT being able to reach the BIG "O" and really, what do I care? I don't I just want you to realize you were wrong Im sure you do now that you heard it from so many other people, NOT including myself Heh
Try sitting in his lap facing him.... I swear it works like a charm!! If it can make me have mind-blowing orgasms and make my friend have her first orgasm then maybe it can make you come too!! *be prepared to work hard for your orgasm... it takes a lot of energy