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do you consider yourself beautiful? or is the media getting in the way?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Nisha, Aug 4, 2004.

  1. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

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    In my experience, a wide range of people can be hot, depending on what situation you are in with them.
     
  2. Personface

    Personface Tennessee Jed

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    Um, I think I am a decent looking human being. My pants are getting a little tight right now, so I may have to loose a few pounds or tone up, but other than that I am just PERFECT.
     
  3. wiccan_witch

    wiccan_witch Senior Member

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    I am really concious about the way I look and NOT in a good way. I have battled eating disorders several times and I have put on a few kilo's since I moved away from home and started at university. Everyone says I look fantastic and that I was a stick before, but like any woman, I can't help stress when I gain weight.

    I have curly hair which I am finally begining to like because I have found a way to style it which enhances the ringlets and ensures it doesnt get out of control. I have a good body, although I wish my boobs were a bit bigger.
    I get heaps of attention from guys, but sometimes I still feel that I am not pretty enough.
    Ugh, damm insecurity. :(
     
  4. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    well, i've lost 32 pouds (it's doesn't look quite the way it sounds) but i'm damned happy about it. i'm into pre-preggers pants and i haven't done anything to deserve. and now, i have an ass! i got a marilyn monroe lookin' bathing suit, and i'm freaking thrilled. it's sexy, even though i'm still pretty big. but you know what? i'm one of those sexy big girls, the ones that frat boys look at and say "i dunno why, but i wanna hop on that moped!" i'm okay with that.
     
  5. Taylor

    Taylor Repatriated

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    I've always been kinda comfortable with my body. Like, I never stressed over it hugely, I never got that upset about it. Never had any issues with not eating enough food - if anything I would overeat (but never that much).

    I have a large frame thanks to my dutch heritage so I know I'll never be a fucking petite little ballet dancer and I'm ok with that. But I've always been a little bit overweight.

    Since coming to Israel though and not having a fridge to peruse whenever I was bored, I've lost quite a bit of weight. AND I'm currently on kibbutz and doing shit like eating right as well as swimming and bike riding every now and then. it's fucking crazy. I haven't been this slim in a while and I like it. I feel good. But the media really doesn't influence what I feel. If I put on some clothes and look at myself in the mirror and think that I look hot then good on me. Woohoo. I'm fucking thrilled. Fuck the media.
     
  6. DarkLunacy

    DarkLunacy Senior Member

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    I'm not that attractive but I dont give a damn. Only thing I would really like to change is these god damned man boobs... They didnt go away even when I ran!
     
  7. Jetblack

    Jetblack Senior Member

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    no, i consider myself to be ugly, its not because of media its cause i am, guys that look like me just dont get the ladies plus im fat as shit well nto really..im 175 and 5'11 but the wazy my body is i still look really fat like im 200lbs+ so ya i consider myself ugly and even if every1 said i was good looking i dont really care cause i know im not good looking
     
  8. DarkLunacy

    DarkLunacy Senior Member

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    Aww dude... Its ok to be a fat ugly guy lol. I've done it for years and I can still get chicks... >_> Sometimes lol
     
  9. Bug_Man

    Bug_Man Banned

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    I am pretty
    Oh so pretty
    I am pretty and witty and wiiiiiiiiise!
     
  10. Jetblack

    Jetblack Senior Member

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    lol thx man, o well if all else fails u can always get a whore or something *shrugs* heh better then nothing
     
  11. DarkLunacy

    DarkLunacy Senior Member

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    Yeah... Whats a little VD
     
  12. crummyrummy

    crummyrummy Brew Your Own Beer Lifetime Supporter

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    I am beautiful, everbody should want me.
     
  13. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    I still feel fat sometimes, I just can't help it.



    And KC, I looked in your gallery and I didn't see a pic of this Marilyn bathing suit you speak of........you need to put one in. ;)
     
  14. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    i haven't had a chance to really wear it yet, i just got it the day before yesterday. need a tan, gonna put some fake&bake on, it turns out pretty good. i'm kinda thinking of wearing the suit like a body suit/shirt, it's that cute.
     
  15. Nisha

    Nisha Forlorn.

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    i just looked at your gallery, and you arent fat! you are very pretty.

    all of you are.
     
  16. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

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    unfortunately i have some self esteem problems, or have had them. but of late, i think i am so freaking beautiful and people that dont wanna love me and get to know me and that dont see my beauty....well they are missing out,.....cause i can see theirs
     
  17. missfontella

    missfontella Mama of Da Assassins

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    I used to think I was pretty before I gained weight. There were days when I would get dressed in the morning, check myself in the mirror, and hear theme music * shes a brick hoouuse, she's mighty, mighty, lettin it all hang out*


    (don't worry, I got it checked out, it was my imagination)

    But now I feel like my body repulses men, like I'm disgusting to see naked (or in tight clothes) My face got fatter too, so I feel like it went from pretty to "ok". This depresses me if I think about it too long. I tried to lose it but it is surgery fat, it won't budge. So, no, I don't feel beautiful.


    And I don't blame the media.....just Halle Berry
     
  18. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

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    i feel like that alot too but i think i learned to not see my external self so much
     
  19. gesone

    gesone Member

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    I consider myself average, in between.
     
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