I have always wondered why women get upset over that. in my home, when IO have mixed company, I close the lid as well as put the seat down, so everyone is equally inconveienced.
Out on the road I have been known to use either restroom depending on how bad I have to go and if there is a line,lol
I was at a dead show in Vegas...and before the show I used the Mens room, there was not only a line at one stall that was all female, I knew one of the females in line!!!!