Fucking CHEATER!!!

Sorry to hear this. I wish I could say give him the benefit of the doubt but I think it's beyond it at this point. Nevertheless, try to get down to the core of it and he if keeps denying when you know he's lying... well, you know what to do. I really do feel for you as I was in a similar situation.

The best advice I could give would be to stay away from these boards. I know others here are going to get huffy about it but why do you need this other girl possibly reading about you spilling your thoughts out here? Find another forum, stay away from the drama. Think about your son, and all the alternatives you have for the near future.

 

Well, have you thought about what you're going to do and the possibility of leaving him?

Or do you not mind polygamous relationships, but were just angry he was lying?

Don't feel you have to answer, as they're personal. But what I'm trying to say is - hopefully you've worked out how you're going to handle it, not crumble or back down, and stick to your guns even if it means leaving.

 

Hollie, if you need to talk I'm here for you.


*hugs*

 

be glad your done with him, a fox like you can replace his ass in a second. No reason to regret the lose of someone even capable of doing that.
if your lucky maybe those two will hook up and she can try and be all cozy with someone she knows is a backstaber, and he can pretend to trust a chick who has so little self esteme she moves in on someone elses ol man

 

Things'll work out in the end but you already Know this.

Oftentimes it's the interim that sucks...

 

Why's this in the relationship section? There's no such thing as cheating in a relationship.

 

Oh...
You will feel better soon.
(((((hugs)))))

 

I'm sorry babe
anybody who would choose to cheat on you is a damn fool, you're so beautiful I can barely take my eyes off you.

what a fool (him not you_

 

lol. Your painstaking idealism just brings me to tears. Maybe it's sarcasm. Who cares. I had to smile.

 

{{{HUGS}}} greengoddess...

 

((((((((((Big, ginormous hugs))))))))))

 

btw... he was in jail, not with her.. we are working shit out.. but I can't be here anymore.. all this stupid internet bullshit has done nothing but ruin our marrige we have both agreed to stop coming on these sites and to give our relationship a real chance.. we have been together for almost 7 years and have had two babies.. we are not just going to throw all this away.. he is an amazing man.. he really really is, we have both done some stupid shit and we both agree it's time to forgive and forget and start over.. we had an amazing talk and I swear we have both been acting like giddy little teenagers in love.. I'm happy we are working on things... sorry I even posted all this and brought you all into the drama.. thank you so much for caring and I'll miss you guys...

I'll PM some of the people I'm closest to and give you my e-mail addy.. I do want to keep in touch.. Love ya guys and take care!

 

Hope everything works out for you......

 

Sometimes getting away from the internet is a good thing. I think you're making the right choice in doing that right now, as much as I hate to see you not on here! Just focus on the two of you and get things sorted out, and I wish you much love! I hope all works out...
Many, many hugs...

 

thank you... it's the best thing.. I would hate that if we did end up not working thinking that I could have done more.. I am going to try my hardest to keep my marrige and it seems like he really truely wants to too..

 

You're welcome.

You're a strong woman and I feel you'll get through this...I really wish the best for you and your marriage.