I chose "older than 20". If things go smoothly, I will probably be having that special moment with that special someone in two years or so. We'll be losing our virginity to each other, and will intend to make every moment count.
Good for you guys! I know waaay too many people who "throw it all away" ... and then sex becomes meaningless. I was one of those people ... except I waited until I was eighteen to throw it all away. Not that I would go back ... but once I lose this latest lover, I don't think I want to have another one. Sex with someone you truly love, has no comparison ... but sex with arbitrary strangers gets old, at least for me.
although I'm still a virgin I choose 19-20 because it better happen by then. I almost lost it when I was 16 and I wish I had, so it would be over with, and I was in love at the time.
18! It was shitty for my first time but it didn't bother me (much) because the second time blew me away!!! Losing my virginity was so liberating!... All you untouched girls out there, staying a virgin is not that big a deal, don't expect your first time to be like WOW, it's just sex, you might get a big disapointment. Don't get me wrong though yeah I think you should be prepaired and do it with the right person and all but don't expect too much of your first time. Where are the men in this poll!?!?!? From what I know from experience I think most of them lost it way earlier than any of us galls!
haha, I lost mine with a guy, who I met in a bar (barman), we were just friends, and one night, we just.. did it and I wasn't prepaired (I don't know exactly what you mean.. "being prepaired"), I don't think he was the Right for me, like that I would like to spend my whole life with him, I wasn't even in love. I've just liked him and wanted it. that's all - and I can tell you - it was GREAT! - well, I don't know if somebody won't tell me "ah, you're so bad, sex without love.." - but it was really nice
most of people have sex without love! I know I have more power to you girl especially if you loved it! greg
Hello! Well i lost my virginity at 17/18 with a girl of my age(same class at school) who was a virgin too. She is the girl i`ve ever dreamed off and we`re still together (for about 1.7 years). I love her so much, and making love with her makes me love her even more. Ofcourse having sex with a stanger is totally uknown for me.
I was 15 she was 14. I know way to young, still it was the first time for both of us, and a very special event.
i lost mine when i was 15, and i have no regrets because i was in love. we had been dating for 8 months and had decided the time was right.
Well, i guess i'm still a virgin but i did a lot of oral and had a lot preformed on me too... got fingered a lot too... my bf won't pop my cherry so I don't know when I'll get over my virginity
Dont look at it in a bad way... he respects you, and that clearly shows that he has feelings for you... perhaps he believes on waiting for marriage.. I am not saying that you should never have sex before you get married, but on the same token, I found out that the girl I lost my virginity too, started dating me on a bet... Thinking I needed help, and had not "been with a girl" Well I had, but I too THOUGHT I wanted to wait for marriage... and then I found out after we had already had sex, the sick awful truth for why she went out with me... I broke up with her, and you know what I got for it? My very first psycho-stalking woman... It was a good thing I had already signed my paperwork to join the Navy because 3 days after graduation I was on a bus to Orlando, for basic training where she could not follow... So long as you please each other, thats all that matters... I would caution however, that you never know how good a car really is until you "test Drive" it... and it is my personal opinion, that this analogy also applies to people...
