I had fallen in love with my best friend from Colombia, and well we've been chit chattin' for two years, and he really loves me and I love him, and I just dunno what to do... well..turns out, he came out and said he had a friend over there with benefits, and oh my gosh..I feel soo heartbroken..and I dunno what to do now...this is why I have never wanted to fall on love, because then I get totally hurt...
At least you know he loves you.. I'm assuming you believe him when he tells you?.. I love someone who is unsure of his feelings for me and sometimes doesn't want me around.. Wonderful, huh?
listen to me young lady! if i didnt have a gf, i would drive out to wherever it is you are (permission based of course) and i would treat you right. this guy obviously is not. what more does a guy need to hear from a pretty chick such as yourself to treat you the way you should be treated? thats insane. im sure he is pretty to look at, but miss orgazmik...you...ARE...orgasmic
Thanks, hun! I'm not sure what it is he's looking for in someone, if he's even looking to settle down.. He's just having some fun, which is fine but not at my expense.. I wish him the best in life.. I hope he finds someone who will put up with his bullshit when it comes to having a relationship.. I would call him at 3 am just to let it be known I missed him and what not.. He must be looking for someone to walk all over, and that isn't me.. I was honest, loyal and asked for the same in return.. It must've been too much.
Orgazmik, don't settle for less than you want. You deserve to have what you want and what you need. Good Luck....with the search.
whoa...the post i originally responded to you sounded like you were just upset but tagging along...now you sound over him or moving past or something like that...mazel tov
Oh, I am upset and he knows this.. He's a 41 year old man into games and I'm no longer playing.. Anyone who would deny their feelings for someone to someone else is full of shit and no one I want to socialize with.
well yeah..I believe what he tells me. But also I am very unsure now because I am 16 and he is 22. I think I shouldn't be even thinking about love or liking someone right now..It'll ruin my perfect childhood...I am too childish and irresponsible to have someone by my side... But I had a crush on someone(7th grade) who told me that we could be boyfriend and girlfriend..if I kissed him and stupid things like that...and I was like NO. because I was very uncomfterable w/ my feelings for him...I didn't want him to use me because he was horny little loser...
