any guys having problems lasting long ?

okay, as funny as that might seem, i cant seem to last long enough. and its ruining my sex life. and after cumming the first time, it takes forever for me to get an erection again. help me out guys... desperate. thanks

 

get walnut, honey, pistachios and banana, mix them with milk in a blender
and protect your chin.

 

Its all in the mind, I can hold on for hours. Ive always been able to do it, cant explain it!

 

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Well work with what you got, enjoy cumming, please her some other way. Dont worry about missing out, over time youll be able to last longer. Worying about how things should be comparitavly is for people who want to plan to be happy and never acomlish it. Girls will talk atleast as much about how a guy lovingly eats her pussy as they will about a guy going for hours.

 

When you're just about to cum, stop for a few seconds.
After a few times, you'll get into a groove and be able to last forever.

 

kilgore has it right, start practicing when you masterbate, train yourself not to cum, you are forcing yourself to do so probaly, relax ffs, you can also get yourself in mode of repeated hardons by masterbating multiple times during the day, practice makes perfect good luck,
p.s. if all else fails get a dildo and learn to be good at eating pussy, hell do that anyway lol

 

Well, in my opinion, it feels better BEFORE you cum. So just slow down and then start back up fast when you feel you're going to cum. Like, when you feel it, slow down, wait for it to go away, then go back faster. Just try to balance. OR USE VIAGRA!!!

 

It helps to think about non-sexual things when you feel you're about to "lose it", like politics or computer programming. You get the idea.

 

If I thought about programming, I would instaneously get pissed off at a problem I would be having and completely ruin the mood. lol. I prefer to sing the "Toys R Us" song hahahaa

 

yah! that's what i do.

just try humming a tune in your head.
as for me i like pirates of the caribbean.... yo hoe, yo hoe a pirates life for me...

 

I need to pick a song for myself for that purpose, now...


Something unsexy that conjures unsexy images...

"Old man, take a look at myself, I'm a lot liiiike youuuuu... I need someone to love the whole night throuuuuugh..." Neil Young is unsexy...

"Ticking away, the moments that make up a dull day
Fritter and waste the hours in an offhand way...
Kicking around on a piece of ground in your hometown
Waiting for someone or something to show you the wayyy."

Yeah, I guess Neil Young or Pink Floyd would do okay for that purpose.

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey

"TIME" is now my official "don't come yet" song!

 

a guy told me that if u know a guy is about to cum and u dont want them to bellow the balls like the end of the penis or start wateva u want to call it, the area between the balls and the anus anyway just push there and of course it stops the flow of cum to the head of the penis there for slowing it down which untill u get urself organised into a new possie so that u can slow down can keep u from blowing to fast i also read it in cosmo haha thats where i get my sex tips i hope this helps neone, girls u can do it to when u dont wanna swallow!

 

'the area between the balls and the anus'


I've been told that area is called the crinch (i don't know how to spell it, but it's pronounced kreench) just heard this recently and thought I would share my new-found knowledge hahaha

 

I suggest to try a cock ring.
They have been used for centuries to prolong erections and control erection and ejaculation. Some have some sort of release mechanism to facilitate orgasm at just the right time.

here is couple links to the store where I work:

• http://www.sextoysuniverse.com/sex-toys/erection-control-p1-c155.html
• http://www.sextoysuniverse.com/sex-toys/cock-rings-p1-c147.html

hope it's not gonna considered spamming.

good luck

 

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thanks for the massive suggetions ..... will keep it in mind next time !!
thanks guys

 

First question - how old are you ? Age can have a big impact on this

Second question - are you excercising ? If you are out of shape then this may be impacting your ability to perform after the first ejaculation.

If you are in good shape and are young....then it is probably mental.