question for men

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i would be fine with it.. in fact my girlfriend now isnt a virgin but we are waiting atleast 3 months without any sexual contact.. why?.. she had some really bad experiences in her last relationship and it scared her.. im an understanding guy and completely understand.. its been a month and honest its been the best month of my life.. shes an amazing girl and even though we are both very sexual people we arent fixated on it.. its amazing just hanging out and holding her

 

Yes, I too believe anal sex is sexual intercourse.. I think if your bf *loves* you he should be greatful for what you are already doing for him. BTW, bj is oral sex so your not a virgin either way after a bj(perhaps only technically). Even masturbation is considered 'manual sex' sooo... Yet, I think vaginal sex is higher level than a bj. Not because you lose your virginity (most of the time) but you may get pregnant, everything is God's will, you will concieve and nothing can stop that if that's God's will. My then gf (and now a wife) and myself "settled" for less than that; the only thing real sexual we would do together is her letting me rub her pubies over her clothes, I didn't care about myself, all I wanted was to please *her* (and she was willing)because I loved her. We didn't have any sex until we got married. So, if your bf puts too high a premium on himself, asking you for more, I don't think you should do him a "favor" if you are not totally comfortable with yourself.

 

Yes colloquially.

No technically.

Guess which one counts in R/L? *c*

 

me and my gf had sex after a love relation of 3 years.After that we did it frequently and sometimes she used to give BJ.

we r married now and her BJ is relly excellent.

 

this situation actually just occured with me. I was dating this girl for about 8 months, and although she wasnt a virgin, she was quite unexperienced. She wanted to wait, and because she meant the world to me, I waited. Although it was frustrating at times, because i cared for her so much it wasnt that big of a deal. Plus, she gave good head.....hahaha

 

Wtf was that?

 

You can have anal sex and still be a vaginal virgin...

Think about it, from a doctors perspective you are still a virgin until you have had sufficient sex to break the hymen... SO... you could have anal, and OBVIOUSLY not break the hymen...

Nuff said...

 

i would love to cum on your chest

 

So let me get this straight...

None of you think putting your cock in someone's mouth is sexual? WTF!?

 

When I was a teenager, I was a frequent fan of handjobs, blowjobs and footjobs. We just never had vaginal or anal intercourse.

My personal feeling is that hormones are out of control when you are maturing and if you love the person than having oral sex (or even anal) is a fine substitute for the real thing. The thing for me was the risk associated with getting pregnant at that age. By having oral or anal, the chances of pregnancy are non-existant so that met my goal. Both of us always got off and had fun pleasing the other without any risk of pregnancy and no added pressure from the other person.

Yes, putting my cock in her mouth was sexual. It made me cum every time. Same thing with licking and sucking on her pussy. It was sexual. But as far as I was concerned, she was still a virgin until I penetrated her pussy with my cock. Which for me didn't happen with a woman until my 20's.

 

when I was a kid, I am sure eventually I woulda started putting pressure on her.

Now, I am cool with that, even if she aint a virgin......

 

My experience at 18 was similar. I was dating a very Catholic girl, and kinda pressuring her hard for sex, Ill admit, especially since she aggressively planted the first kiss on our first date. I happily settled for handjobs from her until she was ready about a year later.

 

My bf was happy with getting blow jobs before we decided it is time for us to have sex
Dont worry girl, if he love you (and Im sure he do), he will stay with you no matter what.

 

If he's in love with you, he will wait until you are ready to go all the way. Besides, this will give you both a chance to master your oral skills.

 

Fuckin' A.


Trying to put myself in that position. If by chance,I was with a girl who was a virgin & wanted to remain that way,but she was WILLING (key word here) to suck me off to take care of my needs (she does love me,so she should want to anyway,right?) then I think I could be satisfied with that. I mean who the hell wouldn't,right? A chick who doesn't want to fuck but would suck dick whenever you wanted!! Although sometimes,when I am getting head,I get so into it,even though she would let me finish in her mouth,I end up pulling her up & fucking her.

But if she was just doing to please me & not getting anything out of it or not really even into it,yeah I'd probably end up fucking her sister or her slutty best friend.

 

If the gal is nice looking and likable then yeh I'd wait. I'm quite a patient person even when it comes to sex believe it or not, although I wasn't when I went to Thailand

 

im was in that situation too where the girl wanted to wait till she was married but would do anything else (which didnt relaly make much sense to me) but i took my bjs like a champ and waited out the sex...we aren't goin out anymore but i hope she still waits till shes married since shes lasted so long already...i'd wait and hope she turns around but idk some don't