one of the points of the whole "first time" thing is to get that stupid hymen in your past. i never saw the purpose, i'm going to take it up with God. my first time hurt, too, but it was such a sweet episode. so innocent and childish. anyway...CONGRATULATIONS!!! a hymen is just a membrane, and you don't have to pin ALL your hopes on the first guy, that's too much pressure for any man. enjoy yourself, loosen up, never feel shame for doing what you want to do, shame is just other people's guilt inflicted upon you. kinda sorta is just fine. i'm so happy for you!!
Thanks everyone, I guess I just need some time to get used to it Oh well Ryan, maybe in our next life
I was very shocked when I read this... good for you... I guess that would me makethe only virgin now
Oh man Gloria. I know you told me it would. But nothing could have prepared me for just how much it hurt. I thought I was dying. I'm sure my neighbors heard me screaming in pain, I feel bad for them
My best wishes for a satisfying and enjoyable sex life. I recommend starting off with fingering to allow the vagina to gradually get used to (as someone else put it) foreign objects. Start with one finger, then two, then go to three. When you're comfortable with three then you have a good chance of being comfortable with a cock. This advice isn't perfect considering the variety in size of fingers and vaginas, but it worked for me and you can most likely modify it to fit your needs. Or hopefully you're a bit of a masochist. Either way, the more you do it the better it gets and soon you will be enjoying it.
I don't think any womans first sexual penetration experience is a wonderful or nonpainful thing. If you want things to be less painful next time try masturbating on a frequent basis with your hands, a vibrator, or a dildo. Also make sure theres lots of lubercation, that helps tons!
Thanks Stella, I will try that. And just because that time wasn't good, I'm not going to give up on the whole thing Thanks Andy, my mind has still not decided whether it was wonderful or not.