ask my dad??

if you were stupid enough to stay around a fucking Heroin addicted Drunk, then i DO think it's funny because u were that fuckign stupid.

there is a thing called REHAB, ever heard of it? if your father wasnt willign to go, do u think a fuckign 6 year old crying after he just shot up in the bathroom is going to be enough to knock the habit? i dont think so, SHOULD A 6 YEAR OLD EVEN BE AROUND A FUCKING DRUNK?

maybe your mom shoulda made some better descisions in her life and u wouldnt be posting on hipforums, on if u should ask your former abusive drug addict dad if he could hook u up with weed because u lost all your connections

and i dont give a rats ass if it makes u Feel any single emotion because to be honest, it sounds like your life is down the toilet to begin with, so i have little to no sympathy in somone following in their parents footsteps on the road to cracktown.

 

digit and sir have a point, If you want to reestablish with your father (wish my son would) do it public with watchers.

beleive an old man when I say temprement doesn't mellow with age. Tigers don't change stripes. etc.etc.

 

Digitaldj you are one nasty piece of work. How can a young child do anything about the position they are put in. Do you take some perverted pleasure from other peoples pain or are you a little kid trying to impress god knows who. Tokergirl if you put your problems out to air on a thread like this unfortunately you leave yourself open to such idiots.

 

I don't think you should contact the man who did this to you and your family.

If he has changed, then my first opinion is not as strong. BUT, I do have to wonder how you know that this man with whom you "..don't keep in touch" has "completly changed and is a pretty good guy now." How much of your evaluation comes from your desire for a decent father, how much of it is real and how much your evaluation comes from your desire for marijuana.

My suggestion; get counseling. As an abuse victim, you need professional help to get your head on straight. Particularly about evaluating men.

 

i'm the idiot in this thread?

refer to the mother.

 

Digital is brutally honest, but he most definatly has a point. TokeGirl, I think you got far worse things to worry about then a god damn blunt... grab some kleenex and get help..

 

There is a fine line between 'brutally honest' and just being an insensitive twat. And digital, whether he cares or not, has just gone way over the fucken line.

About the second part of your post... I agree... I mean, with that situation, weed means shit, just concentrate on building the relationship.

 

*doesn't touch this convo with a 10 foot pole*

 

*same thing as Sezzy*

 

if everyone who has a fucked family situation is an idiot, then probably a third of america is fucking retarded. maybe her mom's and idiot for staying, maybe she's not. im not saying either way because i don't know.

i do know that its pretty fucking ignorant to take such a strong stand about someone's life who you have never even met.

on the same page, to the op, why are you asking us? we don't know you. we don't know the specifics of your situation. its your fucking father. if you need to ask strangers on the internet about it, then it's probably not a good idea.

 

Digital, were you hugged as a child?

 

no

i was only sexually, verbally, physically, and mentally abused by my father, who after having me in an upside down car seat, rolling around in the back of his rusted out chevy pickup truck while he drove around tryign to score crack, forced me to clean the dishes while he shot heroin in between his toes and watched Sailor moon and garfield cartoons on a stolen TV, he later pawned to buy the meth setup, which eventually blew half our house up sending me into child protection services, and him to Jail

NOW TELL ME YOUR FUCKED!!!

 

I guess the real problem here is that you feel the need to take out your anger on other people that have had similar bad experiences, Simply because you never got help with your problems.

Now when you hear stories about other peoples issues they are some how not as important as yours or they are not as much as a person as you are so you feel the need to bash them to make yourself feel better.

 

First of all...how many 6 year olds do you know that can just leave and start a new life on their own...I don't control my mother...duh. Second, obviously I heard of rehab...only problem with that is I'm not my father. Third, I'm working toward my doctorate degree in Veterinary Medicine and make $75,000 a year...I have a great life thank you...hardly going down the toilet. What have you done with your life? And fourth...I have never, nor will I ever use crack or heroin. And I don't get drunk. I have never had any emotional problems concerning this issue...it made me stronger. Do you think your comments will cause me to twinge...or shed a tear? So you think you know eveything about me?...you don't know shit. Get a life.

 

Leave this post be.. It has cost enough problems already
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I observe that the two people in this thread who are "yelling" at each other the most are also the two people who admit to being victims of abuse as children.

I repeat my advise that every victim of childhood abuse get professional counseling of some kind. The self diagnosis "I'm alright" is frequently wrong. (My wife claimed that she was alright for years, until it became obvious that she wasn't.)

 

first off, if your mother had any brains in her head, she would have left, OR given u up for fucking adoption or somthing because clearly the family u were brought into this world to was totally fucked, and if they had been smart, they would have realized alchohol and drug abuse arent easily overcome and maybe, just maybe they could have given their daughter a better life then they have.

2nd, if your gonna try to Show how big your E-penis is, i currently go to the University of British Columbia [UBC] for computer science, i'm fairly certain where ever you are learning to cut up dogs, is much less respected then my school.

so go do whatever the fuck u want, i dont care, clearly u are getting upset because u continue to post in this thread while, myself on this end is just laughing and having a good time

to be honest though, i suspect the overall knowledge of anyone trying to do, what u are asking advice for in this forum, maybe u should concentrate on school rather then trying to get high.

 

and as for that first message about abuse, for all that didnt realize that it was a joke...come on..

i come from an upper class neighborhood, where the worst thing to happen is graffiti, the thought of ppl smoking anythign but weed around here is ludacris, thank god i never lived in some hole where things like this happened.

 

haha i agree totally with dj

 

people do hard drugs everywhere. its not exclusive to any class. you just don't know about it. sure it's more common in the ghetto, but you don't think there are plenty of housewives who are 100 percent addicted to tranqs or pain pills? theres domestic abuse everywhere as well. don't think you're above anything.