I love sex, I have said for years that its my favorite recreational activity, and i'm not just joking around, it realy is. I love the feeling of womans flesh in my hands, i love the way they smell, the way they taste, and i love being responsable for making them squirm they way they do. Do you know how much it sucks to love that sex that much and be single?! its not just the guantity either, oh hell no, Its's like getting a buz, but never getting stoned, like only danceing the waltz, fun but unsatisfieing. So what does a person do? be celibete? my record so far is 7 months, done 5 a few times. after awhile you just need to get laid to feel human again, then who do you do? one night stands? I fell off the wagon this last few weeks and had three of those, well more like a week and a half. the first was kinda "pity sex" the chick has luechemea and was given 8 months, It was a drunk ass thing to do, i knew she had a crush, and now ive hurt her feelings. It was robotic sex, I wasn't at all into her, and left me feeling empty. So to get over that i did a freind who has been asking me for months, she's a babe and was handy so i went for it. It was just sex for the sake of sex, and she had to split wayy to soon. so last night I did anna, she has turned me on for awhile, expeciely on the dance floor, and damit i want i want i want, so i took. Theres no way i would ever fall in love with her, but im doing it again, maybe even make a habit of it, shes gonna get hurt and when the one i am looking for comes along, and ask me if im seeing anyone i'm gonna have to explain and she's gonna get cold. maan, i hate being single
You're lucky that you have been able to have the opportunity to experience having sex. I am only 17, and I wouldn't mind having sex, but before I can do any of that, I would have to get a girlfriend first and give it time, but no-one would be attracted to me. I guess my time hasn't come yet, and I hope it will one day, but there's fat chance of it happening, so I aint banking on it.
look around at the people who are hooked up, think they got anything on you? they just had the oppertunity, due to luck or whatever. You could have a girlfreind within a month if you just join some kinda club, expeciely voulenteer work. just be there freind, play it calm, practice slowing your mind on comand. and if they lean toward you, do not lean away, and if they dont lean away when you do, dont be afraid to put your hand on them, nothing breaks the ice like first contact. fortune favors the bold
Dudes I hate to be a downer here but I think how you treated that poor girl with Luchemia was horrible. How you feel if you were her and some guy had sex with you just 'cause he felt sorry for you and was desperaate? Trust me, t it would suck, that's just plane obvious. As for the friend, I see nothing wrong with that, as long as she knows you aren't looking for anything serious, and as for Anna, I suggest telling her you aren't looking for anything serious, too, that way, it's up to her whether or not she stays or not, at least then she'd know what she's in for.
yeah i feel bad about it, but she had been going on and on for days about how she hadn't had sex in months, and how lousy her last lover was etc.. I went over there after drinking with my buds to drop something off asnd pretended she didnt have alterior motives. doing my friend was bad for me, and as far as anna goes she and everyone else in my circle know i dont like being single. I was just needing to complain realy, and this was not something i could share with my freinds, maybe hoping someone who goes through the same thing would respond, commiserate with me,,
Yeah...uh...personally, I agree with Gypsy girl. You're kind of pathetic to do that to someone. This is something only a real dirtbag would do.
damn, I didnt play her ! how rude and insulting ! she knew i wasnt interested and shes a little old to be thinking that having sex with someone is a way to make them yours. and shes not mad at me either, not at all. Actualy if anyone got played it was me, " all the i undrestand, i feel the same way, yada yada yada," just bullshit playing me ! and if she wasnt sick i wouldnt feel all that bad for her,
Oh, such a man *rolls eyes* She got played as much as you did...it takes two...and if you don't want to be with someone, don't be immature and just sleep with someone just to have sex...That goes for her and you. Have a little self control.
easy to say when you've gotten laid this year, and you realy dont know enough about the situation or me to be so insulting, or to make such blatenly glib assumtions nor was it me who started placeing blame, you simply forced me into a position to set the record straight. I dont know if you have an ax to grind against me personaly, or just in general, but such negative generalities are very unhealthy
Spring had turned from the giddy excitement of the comming summer, to an itch i couldn't scratch, and all the attention i had been getting lately was only making it worse. She called and ask a favor, and how could i say no, she lives 80 feet from my door and news from the doctor was not encouraging, if anyone was in a position to ask something of there freinds it was her she smiled at me when i walked in the door, a buetifull smile. A truly lovely woman, soft face, and kind eyes, a soft blond down covered her head that made you want to run your fingers across it. she looked as if she ready to settle in for the night, wearing those light flannel pj's i had said i thought where so sexy, and still damp from the shower. I tried not to stare, but even though i never felt any energy between us I couldnt help but admire her. She told me she was blue all day and could use a little company, she's not bad to hang out with and another beer and a bowl sounded like a plan. so I plop down at the other end of the couch and we get to talking, first about our mutual friends, but it quickly turned to sex. We talked about her how condition had ended her sex life such as it was, and how i needed to be carefull not to repeat the mistakes of my youth. the conversation was going well i was dodgeing the land mines and enjoying her veiw point. we were connecting, like two freinds do sitting up late in the night, and i made a foolish confetion, " i think i need to just go get laid " as soon as i said it i new i was cornered, and by the look on her face so did she. What could i tell her? that i wasn't gonna brake a prolonged celibacy to sleep with someone who didnt do it for me? I've seen this particular fury of hell a few to many times, and i do not want to see it again. Turn around and i'l give you a backrub" and i easiely gave in. what the hell, it will still be fun anyway, she does look good, and I'm mature enough now not to start up old habits,,,,,
I don't have any axes to grind. You posted something, I gave a response. If you don't want to hear all sides, don't post. What do you want people to do? Pat you on your internet back? Fat chance. I'm sorry but you just sound like a dirtbag that wants to get laid...FROM WHAT I READ. The way you talk...and what you posted and the way you said it in your first post...DID make you sound extremely immature. I really had to double take on your age.
your response was rude and judgmentel, not realy paying attention at all to what i was saying. you should find out whats going on before you go about insulting people. and when you do wrongfully insult someone you should apologize, and an immature person dosnt give a rats ass if they hurt someone, as long as there getting what they want, instead they just make childish excuses of how its not realy there fault
Are you going to cry about it now? BWAHAHAHA, apologize? To someone on the internet? Get real! If you want people to know the whole story POST IT...don't give half the story. DUH!
man do self rightous poeple annoy me! and self rightous hippies are the worst. its just so hipocritical, upsets my romantic notions of what it meens to be a hippy. maybe when you grow up you'll learn the lessons of karma, but i dont think you will and anyone who is so blatently glib i doubt ever realy apologizes to anyone anytime
Hey That's my line! Steffen: I wasn't being rude or mean, I was being HONEST. If you don't want the honest truth or if you're THAT thin-skinned...you shouldn't post. And if I am wrong in REAL LIFE, I apologize. I'm not too proud too...trust me. But on the internet? Get real. I could be some fat hairy slop just wanting to get in insanejester's pants.
