Well, i am not a girl but you could try this.The next time you are down there licking on that thing slide your finger in her ass.She will do one of two things.She will get off really good, or tell you to get off her,lol.
Not so much a technique as an awareness, you have three "manipulatiors" in your mouth, the tounge and two lips. One technique is to rest the upper lip on the top of the clit. The lower lip goes on the peretineum (the bridge between the vagina and the anus.). The tounge goes in the middle. Leave your upper lip in place and close your mouth. Open and close and open and close. The sensation of your lip on her clit plus the double stroking of the tounge and lower lip will drive her crazy. Another technique is to put two fingers in her vagina and rest your chin on your palm. That keeps you in place no matter how she bucks. It was while using this that I noticed a firm wrikely spot on the top of the inside of her vagina. That was how I found the G-spot. A quick way to make a positive impression is to approach her from the side. Your head and body forming a T with her body is different from the usual approach between her legs or the 69 position. Your usual techniques, rotated 90°, will feel new to her. Don't forget to rub the tendon where the inside of the thigh meets her torso. Oh yes, teeth can be used, but be very careful and get ready to appologize if/when you are too forceful. Another technique, suck her clit in and out as if you were giving a BJ to a little penis.
clit clit clit clit clit clit clit.... can't say it enough. Don't do the ass thing, only guys prefer that when getting head(g spot in ass... ) ???? most guys dont know what they're doing, so trying new things when you dont know anything AT ALL doesnt help... lol just try to be calm about it,like dont get wild, or dont START wild... work your way into things...
Ask your woman partner. Communicate. Everyone's different. Don't go straight for the clit and focus intensely only on it. Play around. Have fun. Laugh and / or be intense. Tease her pubic hair, above, beside, below. Touch or lick everywhere -- the lips, the hood, the hair, the clit. Touch outside, then inside, then out. Be gentle, be firm. Tease, be direct. Go slow, go fast. Alternate, so that you're not doing the same thing, from moment to moment. The great comedian Sam Kinison suggested writing out the alphabet down there with your tongue. Everyone's different -- some women like you to put your hands supporting their buttocks, some like an arm under them as you lick their treasure and tease their butt. Just be committed to pleasing her, and communicate and be willing to learn and be willing to change, if necessary, every day. Pay attention to down there, then give her lips or breast a surprise kiss before returning. Put your heart, soul, and sense of fun into it!
I personally LOVE it when my man plays with my breasts first, then relaxes his tongue so that it goes softly across from the bottom of my hole to just above my clit, he does this for a few moments then starts to make his tongue firmer and faster over my clit more and when he's got me breating hard he slides two fingers in and hits my G-spot while using his firm tongue on my clitty, oh god does it ever feel good... but I think the most important thing about it is that he takes his time, going slowly and allowing me to enjoy every movement to start with, slowly building his pace. I hate it when he tries to suck my clit, that really doesn't do anything for me at all.