I dont get why, but for some reason I have a problem getting girls. I just dont get why. I am confident, I think im pretty good looking and funny. I am not nervous around girls and I am jyust a fun guy. But I do not get why not many girls take notice in me. I havent mad much experience in relationships, but I am trying to find a girl and need advice. It seems whenver Im interested the girl just doesnt seem as interested back. I dont know what my problem is. Any help would be appreicated.
Well it could be alot of things man. Maybe they can't imagine being more than friends with you, the reasons, no idea. But maybe looks has something to do with it. I am somewhat in the same boat as you are.
If you who see yourself everyday in the mirror and know your own habits and personality, do not know why you can't get girls, how do you expect others who have never seen or heard you to know? Maybe take a step back and have a heartfelt chat with a buddy or someone you can trust. Someone who knows you but who can be objective. If not then it's perhaps time to take a second look? Either way, it could also be the environment, your outlook, the people you're around with. If you don't feel comfortable and you're mixing with crowds that don't allow you to be yourself, then it shows. And lastly, why do you assume there's something wrong with you? It could very well be that you don't fit into a necessary mould like all the cookie cutter characters around you. Being a female, I can tell you right now most of the girls boys in their teens or early twenties go for or fantasize after aren't very bright nor attractive on the inside. Maybe it's time to reevaluate the kind of people you want to attract. Maybe not. You're really asking for a football-field load of answers here from people who don't know a thing about you.
maybe its not you but the girls....maybe they just arent "your type". Are you really picky? surely theres girls out there that you might not think, but they are attracted to you. But i think *most* ---not all--- girls are....fucking insane. They will go for a relationship with some hot headed hard ass who thinks he can outdrink and out everything the other person. Then they will treat there girls like a piece of shit. Girls dont know who to go for......there out rounding up faggots dude. Your probly a nice guy. Hence the term "Nice guys finish last"......Sorry bro. welcome to the club
Hey man!!!! Oh, come on, don't worry about it. I say from my own experience: don't wait for it to happen, beacuse it never does. It happens only when you don't expect it at all. My best friend has the same problem. He is everything a girl wants. And why is he single for almost a year? He doesen't want to be with just any girl. So don't worry about it. You'll meet her soon.
