I don`t know what to do about this kid. I met him about 8 months ago. The second he walked in my door, I knew there was something there. I felt that connection. We hooked up later that night. Ever since then, it`s been like cat and mouse. Every couple months, it happens again. We can`t even walk through the halls without staring at each other. Continuous flirting. I stopped him once to ask him what exactly we were doing here but he had no answers. There hasn`t been any move toward commitment although we both get pissed off when someone else comes along. I don`t know what it is about him. Everytime I look at him, my heart jumps up into my throat. Frankly, I can`t live this way. What should I do?
either explain to him your thoughts and feelings on the connection (id say about 90 percent of the time these connections are indeed mutual) and try and get a relationship outta him or forget about it if he is treating you like shit. (maybe he just wants some ass...it happens). Hope this helps...peace
I with the later part it occurred to me tonight...why try and figure them out? There are so many of them out there who are open books waiting for their sweet ending so stop trying to figure this dude out. If you can't do that I will do that for you he wants sex or he is emotionaly unavailible and darling do you really want to deal with either of those? so you need to figure out why you want that as opossed to spendgin so much time figuring out somone else out. hugs
