Im a guy and Im new to this whole fingering thing.I've been fingering my self in the shower or bedroom(lube is used) with a slow to medium speed but it hurts like hell every time.I've heard you supposed to get used to it in time but still hurts .Am I doing something wrong
It helps if you're real horny at the time, try doing it after you have been masturbating for a while. The closer you are to orgasm the more sensitive the prostate becomes and makes it a lot more enjoyable and the anus becomes more relaxed allowing easier penetration. Also if you have a hair butt you might be pulling hairs in which case you might consider shaving your butt hole.
