Poll for the guys...

Im at an age where i dont give a fuck if the girl swallows. I just want it
lol jks


nah i woudnt feel rejected. He might be just playing with you.

 

What's the national bird? The Eagle
What's the Thanksgiving bird? The Turkey
What's the bird of love? The Dove
What's the bird of true love? The Swallow.

 

i don't think it really matters, does it really?

 

blame the pornos... i used to never care, but porno has shown me just how hot it can be when a girl plays with your ejaculate in her mouth..... it really makes you feel good... like you've done a good job. satisfied her.

 

Just so there is no mistake, pornography is a fantasy world created by pornographers for people who are willing to pay for it.
That is one of the problems, young men don't realise this and think that is the real world and when the newest gf does not do everything the bloke has seen in porn he gets shitty.
This is especially a problem these days because of the ready availability of hard core stuff. It must always be remembered that the models/actors in porn are paid to do this shit and often do it to support a drug habit.

 

I know that this is going to offend some women, but I've got to be honest. One, if she spits it on my belly, thats OK. I really enjoy getting head. I also enjoy giveing.Now here's the part that will probably offend. If a woman wont go down, I'm gone. That's just it.Sex is a two way street of giveing and getting. If I give oral, I better be getting some in return. Equality all around.

 

We like to feel you've enjoyed what you've done.

and that we have done well.
The swallow kind of emphasises that... making it much hotter and much sexier.

If you're doing it as a gift... make it a good one.
If you enjoy doing it.....enjoy all of it.

as nike says "just do it"

 

agreed that it makes you feel sexy as hell and that the girl you're with really wants you

 

I kinda have a "I'd rather see cum all over your face then in your mouth" kinda fetish.

 

I can understand a girl not feeling comfortable swallowing for whatever reason, and if a girl is giving me head for the first time, i usually let them know when its going to happen. I will admit that it is a really big turn on when they speed up at that point and dont miss a drop.

 

I think it must depend on the guy. I asked my boyfriend once if he would mind if I spat and he said he didn't care if I did or not, it was totally up to me. Secretly though, I think he's glad I swallow!

 

I don't feel rejected if she doesn't swallow.

 

fuck him off tell him to stop whinging

 

eeeeww I'm with you. I like to swallow when I am really into it but I was with a guy for five years who was always like why don't you swallow anymore and would whine about sex contstantly. it made me never want to give him head because I felt like a piece of meat to him all the time. he was a good guy just wasn't very tactful in the sex department.
You have to be really firm in what you feel comftrable doing and when you feel like doing it. Every guy I have had a long term relationship with has made me feel uncomftrable in asking for something that I didn't want to do at the time and I made the mistake in doing them despite my feelings and that really doesn't make you feel too good about yourself and leads you to resent your partner. If it turns into full blown arguents I would end it because it's obvious he doesn't respect you and that's going to cause bigger problems than this down the road. Make sure to reassure his of your feelings for him when you tell him no so he doesn't feel rejected. As long as your not fridgid and uptight all the time he should respect your boundaries.

 

It doesn't make a difference to me. I think guys are happy enough to find a girl who's into oral sex, I've ran into quite a few who weren't.

 

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sarcasm?

 

If a woman doesn't like doing it, I'd feel like a selfish **** to try and make her do it.

 

prolly so.

 

I say he's lucky I'm doing it at all, and he should be grateful.

This attitude would be such a turn off to me, I would NEVER ask again. Although, I would then proceed to find a woman who will do what she would not.

Why settle for less than everything in your sex life?