What is it with jerk guys that make us like them?

What is the deal? How come 90% of the time I fall into a crush, it's with a guy that is pretty much a complete asshole? Am I the only one? Then even when you realize that he is bad news, you are still attracted to him even though you know it's such a bad idea? I think it has something to do with the whole alpha male thing. The bigger, buffer guy wil be able to provide for you and all that. But geez! This is getting old. ahhh.. rant.

 

they gotta love someone.. and i think we all hope it's us.. and no one else.. just a therory

 

Jerks are often good looking alpha guys because other guys have much more trouble getting away with being jerks.

 

They're easier to leave. That's important considering that I've seen people who ended up married even though they didn't want to.

 

All the guys I ever dated were jerks to everyone else but me.

 

i don't put up with jerks. i happen to have a very good relationship with my father.

 

I ever tell you I love you?

 

once or twice, i believe. i deserve it thoroughly.

 

Awww poor thing. This post makes me want to hold you in my arms and gently rock you like a canoo.
If you want a non-asshole guy for once, feel free to come to me.

Love, bird.

 

hehe. trolling for catfish...

 

haha. I know exactly how you feel...the more of a jerk a guy is, the more I am attracted...a cycle I have to end.

 

How exactly do you define jerk? What are some common behavioral patterns for this variety of male homo sapien?

 

I don't know who the question was directed at, but I'll tell you my idea of a jerk: a jerk is someone who won't even buy his son a jar of baby food, won't come to see his son but once a month, and gets mad when I start seeing other people even though we are broke up.

 

Oh dick sprouts, I can't do that cause I don't have any offsprings or ex girlfriends.

 

I think that young girls don't want someone they are confident they can have, then along comes the aloof asshole, and he serves as a fantasy

 

Could someone teach me the ways of the aloof?

 

hey...my son isn't a dick sprout!

 

sure, be detached, only show interest every now and then, followed by more detachment and disinterest. Act confident, like you don't need anyone.....the key is that you do have to show a slight amount of interest every now and then, so the young annoying girl doesn't write you off as a complete asshole...

not that I ever played the game, because i couldn't see it till later on

 

*snicker* shit like that would have me sending all my gay male friends your direction....

 

I attract clingy guys.....I guess I'm a bigger jerk than most guys. *shrugs*