What is it with jerk guys that make us like them?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by peaceband_chick, May 17, 2006.

  1. peaceband_chick

    peaceband_chick Member

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    What is the deal? How come 90% of the time I fall into a crush, it's with a guy that is pretty much a complete asshole? Am I the only one? Then even when you realize that he is bad news, you are still attracted to him even though you know it's such a bad idea? I think it has something to do with the whole alpha male thing. The bigger, buffer guy wil be able to provide for you and all that. But geez! This is getting old. ahhh.. rant.
     
  2. Boogabaah

    Boogabaah I am not here

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    they gotta love someone.. and i think we all hope it's us.. and no one else.. just a therory
     
  3. SageDreamer

    SageDreamer Senior Member

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    Jerks are often good looking alpha guys because other guys have much more trouble getting away with being jerks.
     
  4. Beyond-the-Clouds

    Beyond-the-Clouds Senior Member

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    They're easier to leave. That's important considering that I've seen people who ended up married even though they didn't want to.
     
  5. Love Fest1969

    Love Fest1969 Classic Rocker

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    All the guys I ever dated were jerks to everyone else but me.
     
  6. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    i don't put up with jerks. i happen to have a very good relationship with my father.
     
  7. indescribability

    indescribability Not To Be Continued

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    I ever tell you I love you?
     
  8. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    once or twice, i believe. i deserve it thoroughly. ;)
     
  9. bird_migration

    bird_migration ~

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    Awww poor thing. This post makes me want to hold you in my arms and gently rock you like a canoo.
    If you want a non-asshole guy for once, feel free to come to me.

    Love, bird.
     
  10. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    hehe. trolling for catfish...
     
  11. AshtonsMom

    AshtonsMom Banned

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    haha. I know exactly how you feel...the more of a jerk a guy is, the more I am attracted...a cycle I have to end.
     
  12. Beyond-the-Clouds

    Beyond-the-Clouds Senior Member

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    How exactly do you define jerk? What are some common behavioral patterns for this variety of male homo sapien?
     
  13. AshtonsMom

    AshtonsMom Banned

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    I don't know who the question was directed at, but I'll tell you my idea of a jerk: a jerk is someone who won't even buy his son a jar of baby food, won't come to see his son but once a month, and gets mad when I start seeing other people even though we are broke up.
     
  14. Beyond-the-Clouds

    Beyond-the-Clouds Senior Member

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    Oh dick sprouts, I can't do that cause I don't have any offsprings or ex girlfriends.
     
  15. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

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    I think that young girls don't want someone they are confident they can have, then along comes the aloof asshole, and he serves as a fantasy
     
  16. Beyond-the-Clouds

    Beyond-the-Clouds Senior Member

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    Could someone teach me the ways of the aloof?
     
  17. AshtonsMom

    AshtonsMom Banned

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    hey...my son isn't a dick sprout!:mad: :D
     
  18. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

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    sure, be detached, only show interest every now and then, followed by more detachment and disinterest. Act confident, like you don't need anyone.....the key is that you do have to show a slight amount of interest every now and then, so the young annoying girl doesn't write you off as a complete asshole...

    not that I ever played the game, because i couldn't see it till later on
     
  19. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    *snicker* shit like that would have me sending all my gay male friends your direction....
     
  20. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    I attract clingy guys.....I guess I'm a bigger jerk than most guys. *shrugs*
     
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