Sounds like flirting to me, but what do I know? I'm just a girl...with a vagina...who found myself extremely attracted to the shyer, less outgoing types all throughout life. I don't recall my boyfriend saying more than a few things before we started hanging out one on one and I dunno why, but he was mysterious and it was sooo sexy. I also had a friend in high school who was extremely reserved and hardly ever said anything at all, yet all the girls were mad for him. I'm sure plenty of girls dig you, Chris, don't completely put up your defenses when they tease because they very well could be flirting. Or it could very easily turn into it. I see good things coming your way, don't worry.
yeah. there are a couple distinctive ways most women flirt. a) they come up and talk to you, but don't really say anything, and act really nervous, usually in a pairs, with one constantly looking for their friends reaffrimation. b) in conversation pretend to be interested in anything you say and laugh at jokes/witticisms that aren't really all that funny. more physical contact. more typical of a confident chick. c) really confident obviously flirty women (who act like waitresses or strippers) are a group best avoided. a chick who just walks up and compliments you or however is more often than not just trying to be nice rather than hit on you.
very true, but i will say that the last statement is not really true. whenever i REALLY like a guy, ill make a point to talk to him by myself, and usually just compliment him or something like that. when a girl is unsure about a 'crush,' thats when she will be with her friends acting up in those ways. but if a girl is SURE that she really would like a to get to know a guy better, shes way more inclined to talk to him by herself. btu yea, right on the money with the other ones. ive never heard it described that way, its pretty ineteresting how you put it.