What does a guy have to do get a girls curiosity. I have a verry bad speech empediment and can not comunicate well. This seems to turn all ladies off instantly. Most ingor me, some laugh and walk away. a few have freeked out. Im sure if could break past the introduction barrier Id do fine.
Hm.....maybe e-mail or messenger first. But really you'll find a girl who doesn't have a problem...otherwise she isnt' the kind of person you want. you coudl always try online dating groups or something along those lines. I wish you the best,
Are chicks really that mean that they'd laugh and walk away from someone with a speech impediment? Jesus christ...what the fuck kinda world do we live in? Anyway...I think it depends on the girl. Have you had a relationship before? If so, how did that go? Maybe you could practice talking in the mirror a little each day, try to get over or improve your problem areas (sorry, I don't know what kind of impediment you have). But seriously...I think any girl you would actually WANT to be with wouldn't judge you on something so unimportant. And also, I think that once you find a girl who makes you feel comfortable, your impediment will go away with her, and things will be fine. Is it nerves that cause your problem? Try relaxing or doing some sort of meditation or breathing exercises. Tell yourself that a girl is just a girl. You don't have to impress every girl you meet. Talk to them like any other person, and don't worry about what they'll think of you. Be confident in yourself and that confidence will show beyond any impediment you have. A truly good person, and a good woman will see past your imperfections and like/love and respect you for who you are.
its not usually a rude haha in your face laugh, more of an embarassed laugh. you get to be able to tell the subtilties when have to deal with peoples reactions for 20 years. thiers really verry few peopel who act down right meen or rude to me. Its more like they dont know how to act. but theirs always a few impatient people around. I do get the if you cant say it fast, then fuck off atitude from a lot of people. wich is quite frustrating.
personally, I find it very very cute.. I mean I went out with a guy who had a speech empediment as well... He use to say things like: Da (the), Forf (forth)... and stuff.... I kind of find it cute and stuff and neat that you owned up to having one I mean that shows a lot of confidence. I mean I have a learning disability (which I still hate admitting or saying and greatly lowers my confidence.) I'm always scared guys would hate me for it or find me stupid. But i think it's cute about you having one.... It doesn't matter how you speak, the thing that matters (to me anyways) is how you feel and how you express yourself and your thoughts.... Speaking is speaking... If you have a problem with it then don't worry about it, it's the inside that counts it's what really goes on in your head that counts... If a girl doesn't like you for it then that's her problem tough luck for her and she wouldn't diserve you.
I was totally attracted to a guy with a speech impediment once, and he came up to talk to me and I was so embarrassed about my own shyness, and he was embarrassed about his speech impediment, but neither of us knew why the other one was embarrassed (until much much later). Anyway, talking to the opposite sex can be embarrassing no matter what, and it's really attractive when a guy can be patient with a girl so she can go at her own pace, which putting aside all awkwardness might be as slow as you like to talk! Best of luck to ya Becca
cousinit, any girl who acts like that isn't someone you want to be with. I agree with the others, just strike up a conversation, if there's a connection you'd both feel it. Don't worry about impressing anyone
weeeel, i suggest being hot. i know some guys who might not pass the entrance exam into first grade but are knockouts. i'd go out with them..
