my boyfriend and I have been goin out for almost 8 months.... he has always hated askin for head because he doesnt want to make me feel like i have to give it to him.. but the thing is i love to do it... he knows i do.. but he wont ask .. but i will only do it if he asks.. i feel like such a slut when i just go down on him... he doesnt make it known that he wants it.. i mean its obvious he likes it because he moans and has a great orgasm in the end.. but he just wont ask... i just dont know what to do.... i love to suck him.. it turns me on to no end ... even just a few seconds of it gets me to the point i want to bang him soooo hard... and he knows it... i just need opinions on what to do to make him askk.. or even experiences of what you guys have done.. whats effective and what do u think of what im saying.... well thanks and i hope you reply ...
as i said i feel like a major slut.. i have been in a few bad relationships where guys have made me do it.... there have been bad times..i would just like it if he asks so i dont feel like he expects
Nothing wrong with being a slut with the guy your in a relationship with, it's not like your going down to your local to take 10 cocks in front of an audience.
why don't you just tell him? and if you've done it yet then just do it. You know he likes it and you enjoy it. I would like my girlfriend to do it that way, without asking her. Maybe he feels he shouldn't ask you that cause you could feel bad.
You cant force yourself to do something you dont feel right about. I think you just need to talk to him about it. Something like "I really enjoy giving you head, but theres a slight problem. Sometimes i want to give it to you, but i feel a bit uncomfortable, i feel like you should ask me first." See what he says, maybe he has issues with it too if he cant ask you? Maybe if you cant ask directly, and neither can he, you could find some way of "suggesting"? Like you could look down and lick your lips..., and he would know what that means.
Walk up to his sitting position, lift the skirt, drop the panties, and rub his face with the bush. If he's normal and civilized, he'll start begging, not asking. You've gotten him used to it, now use that fact to your own advantage! You may have to walk away with no action once or twice if he's that stubborn, but he'll come around one way or the other. If not, come see me, I'm asking you now!
