LUBE (MERGED WITH) CONDOMS

I tried to do my boy friend with a pre-lubed condom, but I couldn't get it in. I'm not circumsized either. So how do I get it in? Do I have to use lube? Or do I squeez my dick at the end to get it just barley in or what??

 

Lube. A lot of lube Go slow.

 

yep .. lotsa lube, and your BF should be very relaxed. It'll also help if he is "loosened up". Try fingering him with first one, then two fingers. Once he is loosened up try three and then ease yourself in.

 

Lube is like water-based stuff right? Do you have to use lube? And it doesn't matter if somebody was circumsized or not right?

 

it doesnt matter whether they're circumscised or not. Use water based lube and only real water based lube- don't use moisturiser or vaseline or anything else, because it can erode the condom. You don't have to use lube but you also don't have to make your partner feel comfortable and good either. Dry sex is painful and you can rip stuff.

From experience, all condoms are 'pre lubricated', but it doesn't mean crap. if there's gonna be a size difference lube is the way to go.

 

yeap lube lube lube,, go out and buy some now.. enjoy

 

Make sure the lube is free of Nonoprynol-9 (N-9) That disintigrates latex minutely and erases the benefits of a condom.

 

he could jsut be tiht. pre-lubed conums really dont have that much lube on them. Just go out and buy some * I prefer wet* and throw it on and your set to go

 

The relaxation thing is always the hard part. I personally have yet to attempt buttsex with someone who I am comfortable enough with. It's kinda hard to relax when you know what's coming. (lol come)

 

its nonoxynol-9, and it does NOT harm the condom at all, either latex, polyurethane, or lamb skin. It DOES irritate the rectal lining, however.

You should absolutely use lubrication. I prefer KY liquid, but any water based lubricant is fine.

He needs to (try to) relax, you need to go slow, no porno thrusts, and if he says stop, you need to stop...

HAVE FUN!!!

 

along with just relaxing, you could ask him to just push outwards a little bit...that should loosen him a little more for you

 

yeah pushing out a liitle bit helps alot and just beign relaxed and lubed

 

What lube for masturbation do you guys use?

 

None. None at all.

 

BuffFilmBuff:
Me too.
I use none, ever.

 

same here, none. tried spit once .. kinda gross.

 

none.

 

Ya wouldnt think it but none seems to work mighty fine.

 

usually none but for the elaborate sessions baby oil or the 'wet' brand style water based lubes are nice.

 

I don't use any, but I'm uncut and so I tend to get pretty moist when I'm aroused.