Life sucks when your gay...

Theres too much of a downside to being gay that when you are your life is completely different from there on. Its like getting diagnosed with aids, from then on you know its gonna suck for a while and its gonna be a challenge you will have to deal with for the rest of your days. Mainly because emidiately you are different and people look at you differently and all the stereotypes that come with it and your just trying to keep your head up when the rest of the world is against you.

 

You really need to worry less about this. Sex is a very small part of your life. Not just yours, obviously; everybody's.

There's a lot to be said for an outside perspective though. You will have a different slant on life because your aims will be different, and if you hang around with the right kind of people (i.e. people who think Supersize Me is the best film ever) that'll get you pretty far in itself.

Plus there's the advantage that you have to be really trying in order to have any kids, so if you don't want them you never actually have to grow up. Think about it: straight people always know that some day they'll probably have to have a family. So they have to think about things like getting on the property ladder in advance, saving money and so on. If you're a homo, you can carry on living in flats for as long as you want, and blow all the money you save on meth. Awesome or what?

 

Hahahahaha.

 

that was funny because i need my meth to keep me strong

 

In all-due respect, that's just pathetic, I wouldn't be too proud about neeeding meth "to keep me strong", instead i'd resort to being proud of who i am to keep me strong!

While part of the world may be against you, there's another part that is whole-heartedly with you!

Quit dwelling, it leads nowhere but right back where you started. If you constantly worry about what other people think of you, you miss out on all the good life has to offer. Concetrate on making yourself happy, not others (because what this is in fact, is you worrying about how others perceive you).

BE PROUD!!!

 

whats wrong with a little meth in ye bones to get ya blood flowing

 

Being gay was a very terrible thing to me. I knew that I would never have a real family, I would never have kids, I would never be able to puplic my gay lover to everyone, my parents would never be understanding...Things are still quite the same now but I no longer see it as a terrible thing. The fact is you cant change it..you better accept it and make the best out of it. I somehow find its cool being a gay. How could I ever be this close, this very very close to my female friend if I was straight?! how could I being this strong and confident without going through very tough time fighting with myself about being gay. x_wax_x is right, there is a another part of the world that is whole-heartedly with you.

Being gay, being a great gay

 

im with you on how it sucks.....i want to be come well known in developing bussiness.. but feel that i cant because people wont want to do bussiness with me because im gay... i might just get married and never come out ..i like living the high life right now and i want to when im older.. but can i ever become rich if people know im gay....

 

Just marry a guy. People prefer to do business with married people because it shows that they can be trusted to make a commitment, not because they're heterosexual. At least I hope so.

 

I didn't realize so many people beat themselves up over their sexuality...


It's something one can't change, so it's better to make the best of it.

I went through a phase of denial, and the like when I was thirteen. It's really not that bad, unless you make it that way.

 

Being gay is certainly easier in some times and places than others. Being gay is really something you can't do much about. What you can do something about is your environment. Seek out places and people that make life easier, not more difficult.

 

i think that of all the many cold conflicts between various groups that exist in the world - gay/straight relations seem to be one the warmest - dunno in the past few years in uk it's almost like none issue - i wouldn't think there was much standing in anyones way.
theres probably many more heterosexuals openly wishing they were gay or at least openly admitting they might be bi-sexual than ever - i remember a time when accusing someone of being gay was an insult - these days it holds no weight cos people flirt more anyway with their sexuality - but hey - i may be ignorant of other countries

 

SHE IS 100% RIGHT!

 

My family is generally cool with it, my real friends have no problem with it, and the people I know from school and work all over the map. If you've got a problem with me being gay, it's your problem.

I grew up in the suburbs of Chicago. There aren't very many out gay people in the suburbs, but Chicago is like a totally different world. I'm at school in California, and things are pretty decent here, too. Most of my family is from a small town in Ohio where it's just awful to be gay. You find ignorant people everywhere, but there's one town in Ohio where the straight people are completely stupid and the gay people are just freakish and nasty. My one cousin is totally miserable there and I keep urging him to get himself out of there. It's all a matter of where you are and who you're around.

 

for me, I have no problems with being gay in where i live- in fact, the only problem I have is that there are little to no other gays to get with around here! I do feel lonely sometimes because of that. But I know I could have it much worse.
Keep your head up, while your being gay won't, these feelings will pass. it can be really confused at times, but you'll come to be cool with it and live with it and it'll be a source of pride really.
Just appreciate who you are. Those who matter won't care.
Cheers, and Love,
Dylan