i was asking myself the same question. I read on hoping it would appear again somewhere in the post. mmh
Why is 2-3 times a week a surprising statistic? Waiting isn't silly. It's indicating that the relationship is about more than sex.
I've never heard of such a thing before. You just totally ruined my theory that women have more ravenous sex drives than men. What do you think about if you don't really think about sex??? Jeez, that would free up at least 6 hours of my day...
When I was in high school, every day after school.. My b/f and I did something sexual... we were rabbits.
To tell you the truth, my sex drive didn't really kick in until I was about 25 years old. I mean, it was FUN to have sex when I was your age, but as far as needing it, no..that didn't come until later. I didn't even really know what sex was until I got older and knew my body better..felt more comfortable exploring. It was kind of awkward as a teen actually. I enjoy sex sooo so much more now. I think about it 95% of the time.. . That's just me though...I guess it varies depending on the person.
Well, to GENERALIZE, puberty makes your sex drive seem (almost) unbearable... But it is said that the peak of the female sex drive is around mid-thirties. So the original poster seems pretty darn healthy, if you ask me.... AND, the way I see it, SM, I think your own journey to the peak has been quite a smooth process, too. Yes, the peak... The beautiful mountain of pleasure... The view from the top is not of this earth... Of course, I can say that since the sexual peak for an average male is said to be around 18 years old, hehe.
i love sex and i think about it a lot.... i only get to see my boyfriend once a month and the week before i know that i am going to see him it gets super bad, oh yeah and that would be this week ,damn
From a male point of view, I have no sex drive at all. Just as well seeing that I've not had a girlfriend for 29 years (yes that did make me 12 at the time) and I don't plan on changing that statistic.
Well if you never see your boyfriend, then if your sex drive is high, or if you are in that mood, feel free to give yourself some sexual pleasure by masturbating when he isn't around. I masturbate like every night, unless I was really sad and upset, and not in the mood. You can explore your body, and from what I have read about your sex drive in this post, it seems pretty normal and natural to me. Just don't worry about it. I wish I had proper sex with a girl, but because I don't, I have to make do with masturbation.
Exactly the same with me, and if this is about the sex drive of teenage girls, starting when I was about 12-13, my sex drive absolutely went through the roof. Everyday when I got home from school, my pants immediately came off so that I could masturbate for at least the next couple of hours. I had friends that were just the same way. I guess everybody's different.
From what I have read, it is normal for teenage girls to not have strong sexual drives. As being said here, this drive thing usually kicks in full force in your late 20s/early 30s, which is a bio signal to you that your window for making babies is gradually closing so you have to hurry. But as you mention your period you get more urges at some points of your cycle, that is also characteristic, prolly that signals your mid cycle ovulation peak time. At your age, I wouldn't worry. I would only encourage you to stay in touch with your body and definitely masturbate on and off to learn well how to orgasm and be receptive to stimualtion; perhaps that'll make your excitement heightened that you will need for marriage compatibility and satisfaction later on.