Ok so I liked this girl, this is the real part. (Back Story) And we drank some Jack Daniels one night and kissed for a while. I thought we were really gunna go out and stuff. Then my friend who we'll call M basically fucked her behind my back. And it was a pretty big betrayal. Anyway I see them everynow and then downtown hanging out. She said she was drunk and didn't mean too, but he persists that it's love. Anyway he's pretty controlling too apparently he wont let her hang out with any of her friends because they'll "steal her away." And if there's no contact with her girlfriends he certainly doesn't like it when i talk to her. So I basically gave up. Haven't had any thought about her for about a week though. And last night I had a dream that I was at some sort of party with white christimas lights it looked like. And I saw her walking up to me in a white dress that exposed the shoulders and we looked at each other, I can't really describe the look, it was weird. Then she came up and whispered in my ear, "I need to talk to you, later." Then she walked off and I remember turning around with a big grin on my face and saw M staring at me. And then the dream ended basically, cause she never came back, and I don't remember what the hell I was doing in the rest of the dream, she just wasn't in it. I can't imagine to ask you all what this means since I know the girl and I don't know. Never really beleived in conncection through dreams, but I haven't talked to her in a while...should I try to hang out with her?
Hi Neobob187 only you can answer this question. And maybe it is not really about wether to hang out with her or not and what you expect as a result then, be it of actions of your own or of the others. The dream is asking you to honour what is, and let go, and be connected to what is ringing true deeper inside. Just a thought!
