Hey i just got a gf and she wants me to finger her but im not quite sure how. How does everyone else do it? When we are making out should i just put my hand down her pants and just go for it? Thanks
you put your fingers inside of her and basically make "come here" motions make sure to play with her clit too hope this helps somewhat good luck
After yer makin out, start movin down, play wit her body on the way down, try to draw it out. Also, totally get yer finger wet before goin in. Experiment, play wit the clit.
stick your middle finger in the hole in the middle, you know the one that she neither pisses or craps out of. you'll figure it out, its not that hard
just take it slow, touching all parts of her will feel good, so you dont need to find the hole straight away. if you really cant find it, ask her where it is. Basically, at the top is her clit, feels sort of hard (if she's turned on which she probably is from making out and you touchign her body) then there the lips right below that, and near the bottom of the lips is the hole. if you run your finger up and down the lips you should be able to feel some wetness and just follow it. Love Amanda
Check out what kinda pants she has on tooo. If she has tight jeans on youll proly have to tak them off in order to get down there. But if she has like mesh shorts on then youll have no problem. good luck
I dont know if everyone does it but they should, if you spend a long time in the fingering stage of things it wont hurt her when you have sex (if shes a virgin and it would have hurt) plus its fun. Just work your way there, everygirl likes diferent things so try it all, gentle motions, hard ones, fast, slow, little circles around her clit and other spots, side to side, in and out. Just try it all, with each new thing start gentle, then as you get comfortable, you can test doing it harder. Specific things that are good would be, circling her clit with your finger(s) 1 2 or sometimes 3 work, sliding the crease between your pointer and middle fingers works well. and fingering her seems to generally work best with presure against the top of the inside, go to further depths slowly, and pay atention as you rub the top of the inside, youll find a spot that really drives her wild, it may feel diferent than other spots. But before you get down to that, you must work up to it slowly, while kissing or playing, first slowly touch lower and lower, eventually cup her pussy from the outside and hold it like you would any curve of her body, maybe even rub it from the outside. then start to slip your hand down under the waist line of her pants, whatever pace your both comfortable with, and unbutton her pants, and unzip them, then keep moving on down. untill you feel her muff. just keep petting and feeling, getting there is half the fun! a little past where you feel fuzz there will be the top of her slit, her clit is under the crease of skin here near the top, but dont just push your finger in, though she should be wet by now, feeling further down, the hole is also in the slit nearer the back. If shes not really wet cup it and squeeze the curve of it and stroke it untill you feel it getting really juicy, there should be plenty to wet your fingers. now gently slide your finger along the crease. This will wet your finger and make the lips soften and open for you. then when it slips easily into the crease you can follow it up and feel the bump that will be the skin covering her clit, if you rub that very jently, or if shes very sensitive, just up against the side of it, it should make her feel good. If you slide down, youll feel the hole, if shes a virgin then you will want to slide in very slowly and not very far at first, but if she cant take if very far you can probably make her feel very good just sliding it in however far feels good to her. over time further will work. Now youve got your bearings, just gently explore, doing more over time. And pay close atention to what she likes. And enjoy yourself. One of my personal favorites that works well is with your hand like you are gently pinching somthing from underneath with your thumb and fore finger, curl your forefinger up inside her hole and put your thumb on her clit, done properly you will have her g spot and clit between your thumb and forepinger and you gan rub them both with one handleaving the other hand to hold the back of her head, stroke her hair or caress the back of her neck while you kiss her. So thats a bunch of my advice, take your time and have fun. There is no reason to rush, if you learn to go slow and be caring early on youll be a good lover all your life.
Just ask her what feels good as you go along. No need to worry about special techniques. Just have good communication and everything else will follow.
every woman is different, so just experiment. i personally only really get off if my fiance plays with my clit...i'm multiple-orgasmic then, but if he fingers my vagina, it doesn't really do much for me...other women are different...but do pay lots of attention to the clitoris...it is the "female penis," so to speak. oh and be sure that you CUT YOUR FINGERNAILS REALLY, REALLY SHORT!!!!!!!!!!!! this is VERY important...seriously, i cannot stress that enough! if a guy with long fingernails fingers you, it does not feel good. period. hope this helps...hehe
umm a good trick is to put ur thumb in and then with the palm of ur hand rub her clit in circular motions just play around and try different stuff good luck buddy peace hendrix xXx
