Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly 6 months now and the love is amazing, its beautiful and its perfect. We have a love for each other that ive never shared with anyone....but theres just one thing bugging me.... her friends....Ive talked to about 6 of her friends...one of them is alrite, shes quite friendly. But the rest, they have sent me e-mails saying I am too fat for her, that she can do better (as if i need to be told, i know thats a fact), and just generally nasty stuff...some of which I dont want to repeat because even thinking about it upsets me. just now one of her ex boyfriends added em and I coudnt rememebr whether sam wanted me talking to him or not so I asked her friend Joanne....who went and told this guy that ide asked whether i should block him or not...and then a big argument started where the guy was getting nasty with me and this Joanne telling em to fuck off......all this because I werent sure if Sam wanted em talking to him or not....and one of her best friends went and told the guy what Sam had said and what I had asked!! I want to stay with Sam...but her friends are making it hard, very hard...they give me hasstle anytime they can and how can this relationship be an ongoing thing if her friends hate me for no reason apart from ym weight and my taste in music???? I never want to leave this girl, In love her......but Its not fair that her friends are being extremely nasty to me...
hey! dont you dare leave this girl because of her asshole friends!!! next time they give you hassle, tell them to grow up and ignore them. Dont play their game, they're just inmature little bastards. Let your girl know your feelings and dont let anyone step into your world. I wish you lots of luck
thaks..ime meeting ehr today and ime just gonna tell her not to intriduce em to any of her friends because its just gonna cause more trouble..it just hurts me that people take a disslike to me wothout even getting to know me
Dont let her rude and mean friends chase you off. You arent dating them so they dont matter in your life. Although I know it is nice when your girl/boyfriend has nice friends since you can tend to be around them alot. But why dont you talk to her about it and maybe she can have a talk with her friends and tell them to lay off! Otherwise, just ignore it if you can. In life you will always come across people who are rude and immature and you just have to ignore it. Sucks for them that they are like that! Good luck with everything!
Perhaps your girlfriend's friends are being bitchy because they are immature and jealous if they don't have boyfriends? Just ignore them and don't let them get to you.
Just be honest with your girlfriend. Tell her straight out what's happening and how it's bothering you. Tell her that her friends are being bitches to you for no reason and you don't understand why. If your love is as strong as you say, she'll talk to her friends and see what's going on...'cause seriously...that's messed up. What kind of friends do that to a person? Sigh...people can really suck sometimes...I'm sorry.....
