painless and good sex with a bigger cock

i have a bigger peins... 9 inches... and my new girlfriend cant take it cause she's really small, does anyone know anyway of having sex with her so that she can orgasm, i've gotten all my other girlfriends to orgasm no problem, but i'm afraid that she's too small to be ok. What should i do?

 

try more foreplay. finger her more (not aggresively) before sex, to try and stretch it out a little. i have that problem sometimes, so i'll use my toy to loosen things up.


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Definitely - foreplay... Make sure she is good and wet. Use lubrication. Women are built to pass a baby through there, so with time it will happen. Just go slow. Something we do is lay side by side, face to face and slide in just the head. It is such a tease, and it will get her very wet. It feels good for both. After about 15 - 20 of this teasing, she should be very wet, and then you can slowly introduce more and more.

 

LOTS of NON-RUSHED foreplay could help.

Fondle her breasts, lick/suck on her nipples, kiss with tongue, lick/suck on her neck, and her stomach, play around with her clit, using your finger or your tongue (in other words, oral sex can definately help before sexual intercourse), etcetera.

You get the picture.

And if she still isn't relaxed and wet enough by then, maybe she's just not ready, or you should try again another time.

And remember, to TAKE IT SLOW. Don't just ram your big fat macho cock up inside her. Take it SLOW at first, insert your penis SLOWLY, and eventually you'll be able to thrust faster and harder if she's ready, and comfortable.

Good luck!

 

Yeah I find the most exciting can be just basically massaging around the cl*t and sliding down a bit ... then inside a little then take it slowly out and rub it there. It's not about the deepness of the penetration that the woman will enjoy ... well not for her at this time!

 

That quite a bit of an over reaction there man, i mean it's a valid question, he might just be to big, the information could be usefull.


As to the question, if length is an issue you can get what's kind of like a soft cock ring. it's a bit thicker than normal which should take a bit of lenght off, u can get one's that vibrate and evrything lol.

 

like others have mentioned, more foreplay is good

try some other positions. Some are more prone to being painful with a slightly too long cock. I find doggy, as much as I love it, is far more likely to hurt me than missionary or me on top. Don't try to push all of yourself in hard, all at once. If she can only handle 3/4 of your dick you might not get to put all of it into her

 

Foreplay and lube- those are a girl's real best friends.