Girls: are you submissive type or do you like to dominate?

Do you like to dominate your man (e.g. woman-on-top-sex preferred; kinky stuff...) or do you prefer to submit (e.g. missionary, doggy; shy stuff...)?

Also, do you think a person enjoying masturbating and doing it falls under the submissive type of a person or the domineering one (if this has any relevance to the type in your opinion)?

 

For me, it really depends on my mood, although, believe it or not, I tend to prefer being the domineering one. But it's all good.

 

Middle of the road.
Second part... No. Everybody does it.

 

uh, why does kinky fall under dominant? I'd say I'm more submissive than dominant, but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy kinky stuff quite a bit.

Masturbation is normal, everyone does it. It's the material of the fantasy that's different for top/bottoms, generally speaking.

 

ihmurria
I just said kinky, I didn't give too much thought to it...I was thinking of leather and bondage and stuff like that and I thought those were domineering attributes...I agree with you.

What do you mean by saying "It's the material of the fantasy that's different for top/bottoms, generally speakin"? Whether you prefer being on top or not is mostly guided by your sexual fantasies, just that?

 

Top/bottom, they are terms for dominant/submissive. Top being dominant.

 

Gotta fritz, thanks!

 

Middle of the Road = switch?

 

Nope, or yes...I think..I'll explain..I'm just neither top/nor bottom though, I can roleplay both.

 

Discounting roleplaying you're neither?
Soo a nonparticipant, a voyeur?

I'm a tad slower than usual - must've been downwind of the fire too long...

 

In bed with my mate we're equals. We talk dirty, and tend to go back, & forth with it.

 

I'm dom with men. I'm sub with women.:X

 

sub
but Im still a beginer

 

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More submissive. But occaisionally I like to be dominant.

 

I just like to make somone completley happy in bed. I'm pretty submissive but at the same time my motivations are the oppositte. there is nothing like hearing a normally really quiet and in control guy moan and go out of his mind when he comes...

 

Ok, I'll volunteer for that one!

 

lynsey

I might fall in that categorization but I tend to moan a lot more when I cum from my wife performing a hand job on me (sometimes even embellish a lil)cause when I have sex I tend to focus on pleasing her, foregetting about myself. So my motivations are the opposite, as well