Std's are everywhere these days....

I am a virgin and am really worried when I am gonna have sex that I will contract an Std. I mean there almost to the point where 1 out of 5 people have one. Does anyone else worry about this because its getting pretty bad these days.

 

Yes, of course people worry about it.. I think about it often.. You have to use your head and be very careful.. Either that or withdraw from any sexual contact.. I hate condoms but I'll use them before getting any STD's..

 

Hey hey, my my
Rock and roll can never die
There's more to the picture
Than meets the eye.
Hey hey, my my.

Out of the blue and into the black
You pay for this, but they give you that
And once you're gone, you can't come back
When you're out of the blue and into the black.

The king is gone but he's not forgotten
Is this the story of Johnny Rotten?
It's better to burn out 'cause rust never sleeps
The king is gone but he's not forgotten.

Hey hey, my my
Rock and roll can never die
There's more to the picture
Than meets the eye.

 

cool song (Neil Young) lol.

-But yes, STDs ARE everywhere. I thought i actually had one, but fortunately it was nothing to worry about . Its a scary feeling to think you have contracted something. The best thing you can do obviously is to not have sex.....But thats bs! Condoms are great. Use them every time. Ask your girl if shes got any std's or anything else and make sure you are very comforting when you ask her. "Lots of people have them .....1 out of 5.....I just want to be sure." etc.

--The hardest part for you will be being able to perform i think. You are gonna have to put that std thought out of your mind when you are having sex because if you dont, thats all you will be thinkin about and that will suck...

Just stay positive and be safe. Have fun to! Peace

 

as long as you're safe about it, you'll be fine. Unfortunately I've come across a girl who has had one, but I was smart about it, and so I never picked anything up. So as long as you use condoms and take precautions, you'll be fine.

 

When I was in high school, we had to take health class. In health, they talked about how drugs and alcohol will fuck up your system and how STDs are everywhere. They really drilled the fear of STDs into our heads. I was *terrified*. I remember, I used to fool around with lots of people, but I wouldn't have sex for absolute terror I'd catch something. (Of course, it's common knowledge that participating in sexual activities, even if they aren't sexual intercourse, can lead to getting an STD, but I rationalized that if I didn't have sex, maybe it would be less likely to happen...) I'm still extremely careful for fear of pregnancy and/or STDs, but I think I've calmed down a little... There's no such thing as 'safe sex', only 'safer sex'. So, I highly recommend masterbation to everyone and anyone. It's fun, healthy and safe. But, should the temptation to engage in highly enjoyable erotic acts with a partner be too powerful, remember: Don't be a fool, wrap your tool!

 

Yep = thats one thing I don't have to worry about and I won't EVER have to worry about it. There's a lot to be said for not doing it!!!

 

So ladies dnt like condoms? whats the difference with/without on the recieving end?

 

I've determined to not have sexual intercourse or oral sex because of the danger of those. I might not be so resolute when I'm in bed with a girl though. I'll have to take my chances though.

 

Oh, condoms are just awful. It doesn't feel like you're getting fucked by a guy, rather, by a large piece of plastic. If I wanted that, I'd stay home with my vibrator. Boooo! Condoms suck.

 

everything is plastic this day....even people!.

 

*sigh* Too true... What a world, what a world.