what the fuck! someone please help...

ok, i have been best friends with alex since 5th grade. we got really close in about 6th grade, after the death of a friend. then she had to move to her dads in colorado. since then she has visited me every summer. she is my best friend and i love her so much, but i am so scared that i wont be able to see her again. her stepmom hates me, and always has, and since this last visit, she said that alex isnt allowed to talk to me anymore. shes not allow to call me, and is not allowed to take calls from me. and she cant visit me anymore. i dont know what the hell i did. her stepmom just has always had a problem with me, and i have never even met the woman. i dont see why her stepmom hates me, her dad likes me just fine. i dont know what the fuck i am going to do!! im afraid i will never get to see alex again, and i dont know if i can spend more that a year away from her. she is my best friend, and i would go insane without her phone calls, emails, and visits. i havent heard from her in two weeks. i dont know how to tell my mom, either, since alex is pretty much part of the family. what if i never see her again? i love her.

 

I would tell your mom and dad.
even if something weird has happenned in the past.
your parents may have had experiences simmilar.

they will also not want to be separated from a member of the family
for false reasons.

all the same - sometimes an adult in charge (maybe alex's parents)
can have a wrong view for heartfelt reasons, and you need patience
until the problem goes away.

it can take years.

your best friend remains a treasure forever, even if you cannot see eachother.

 

I agree, you really ought to talk to someone about it, and have them help you keep your relationship with your friend. It's tough at this age to have your friend's parents take you seriously, but maybe if your own parents could intervene, it could help...

 

dont let her stepmom stand in the way of you guys talking, she can't tell you or her what to do..she's not even her real mom. id call anyway...and keep on calling until she lets you speak to her