Heheh. She just wants a fuckbuddy and she was talking to me about it, so I had to get some other guys' opinions. She's pretty much a nympho, I guess. Loves sex and all that. Waaatch out for teh VD's! Hooray!
I usually don't give sex advice to anyone under 18. But, Don't put down big girls till after ya try 'em!
If you care about this girl, then get to know her, and if you do care about her, make love to her. Don't use her. So many big girls feel the ONLY way they can get a man to BE with them, even for a short period of time is to ask him to be a "fuck buddy." Let me let you in on a Girly Secret: Most healthy girls want a relationship, not just to fuck. Many big girls feel they aren't worthy of love, and have to settle for just being used. Make love to her if you care about her. Don't do her, just so you can say you did a big girl. You will only hurt an already hurt girl.
But what if she's not hung up about her weight? Alot of heavier women aren't. I'm not, I have never been approached by a guy and thought to myself.."Am I too fat for him? Is this a joke? Is he just sweathogging?" I just figure he found me attractive and I if I find him attractive..I go with it. I find that I turn away more guys than those who reject me if I approach them. While there many larger women how do have legitimate issues with their size and do seek any approvel they can muster, there is a serious misconception that all big women are easy, desperate, and have low self-esteem. There is also a misconception that we need our feelings coddled. I know I don't. If someone else has a problem with my ever-widening ass, that's just it; their problem not mine. Then again, I live in Cleveland...one of the fattest cities in the country. If you are over 25 and not the least bit chubby, you are a minority. The only skinny broads here are under 25 and/or college girls from out of state. I knew a girl at CWRU who was from L.A and she remarked about how she had never seen so many fat people and that for once, she was the skinniest in the group. I could only laugh for it was like meeting a country girl who had never seen a black person before. Maybe this chubby girl would also like to partake in a no-strings attached boink. If the skinny girls are allowed to do it, then she should be allowed too.
Well hey. She's not looking for a serious relationship, remember I said that? She doesn't want a relationship, she wants something else. If you knew her, you'd understand. I didn't mean for this thread as a put-down to any full-figured gals, because big is just as much beautiful as any other size, but she asked me a very legit question about fucking her no-strings-attached and I didn't have an answer besides "maybe" and a smile. Just needed some advice. I don't want to look like some kind of ass for asking other guys for advice on the issue, especially when I'm intimidated by ladies posting in this thread and trying to chew me out! heheh, maybe I phrased my original question a little awkwardly, but you get the general idea. I think it's a psychological thing for me. I come from a skinny family and sometimes it just seems odd to me when I find a big girl attractive. Any of you ever heard the album "Frankenstein Girls Will Seem Strangely Sexy"?
All shapes and sizes mate. And if shes fat she probably has big boobs..........go for it cute chubby girls are cute Wear a condom
i can't belive how much encouragement you've gotten. of course you shouldn't fuck her. you probably shouldn't talk to her, unless you're making fun of her.
Hmmm, yes, the way you phrased it was somewhat off. I wouldn't recomend that you do anything just so that you can say you did. But that's not really what you meen, I don't think. Do it because it's different and exotic and intrigueing and you think you'll like it. Nothing wrong with concentual sex, even between people who don't really care about each other. The fact that you're doing it openly is actually pretty mature. A lot of people try to pretend to have feelings they don't.
