My Girlfriend and I...

ok, so i'm not stupid, I know my girlfriend is gorgeous...i'm just curious, do other guys (or girls for that matter) ever wonder if their significant other is better looking than them? like out of your league? my girlie is amazing; beautiful, smart, funny, sexier than anything...is it normal for me to worry about her meeting some other guy she thinks is more on her level? im 23, she is 19. we've been together 19 months...she never says anything like that, im just wondering if my own insecurities are a natural thing...?

 

i used to think that sometimes with my ex.. but in the end it all depends on how you feel for each other not how good one looks or if you think shes way out of your league. you love her and she loves you back. love shouldnt be decided on looks

 

i agree...what im saying is, i dont think i am ugly or that she is like a 10 and i am a troll...i dont know, sometimes i just think she is so beautiful what the hell does she see in me?

 

she probably sees the same thing in you. why dont you ask her?

 

I know exactly what you mean.. It happens..



For the record, the both of you are sexy as hell.. I would do you both!

 

i would do you too

 

blackrose in your gallery you and your gf look perfect together gl in the relationship

 

I think it's a pretty normal reaction, from time to time at least. It's easier to see our own flaws, and put other folks on a pedestal or focus on their best attributes. Just remember that that amazing woman chose to be with -you-, not some other guy

 

i think we tell each other we love one another more than the average couple. like i wont hang up a phone without the last thing being said is "i love you"...i dont care who im with or what i am doing, it just has to be with me. i dont know. amazing girl, love her more than myself, just afraid one day she is going to be walking down the street and some foreign guy will catch her on a windy day like in that movie unfaithful...scarred

 

My boyfriend says that to me all of the time. I love him for his personality and great sense of humor the most. He is good looking to me at least. Maybe in a way I am insecure, so I don't want to date anyone out of my league.

 

it's a silly thought
if you were truly out of their league, I don't think they would be with you

 

it's quite normal for a guy to think in that way, 'cause for us good-looking/beauty is 90%, whereas for girls is just a little..

 

speak for yourself, buddy

it is quite a matter of personal opinion, you should not generalize it like that
not all men are as superficial as yourself

 

trust me wheni say i know my girlie is gorgeous, but that is not the reason i am with her...she is my other half

 

Yeah, she pretty much told me she was out of my league. I guess asking her to come over for some 'playtime' wearing that hot little dress she wore in "One Night at McCools" wasnt the best approach or something....

 

dont really get what you are saying...was that an attempt at humor? if so....weak

 

The second part was. The first part was serious, and it wasnt Liv Tyler.

 

completley and the way the world works she prob is a lot better looking than you. Look around how many guys are hotter than their girlfriends? Men go for looks and women go for smarts and security. I could never date anyone better looking than me I would be too insecure. everyone I've dated has been attractive just not as attractive as me. I'm not concieted I am just honest.

 

I think a slight bit of general insecurity that your GF will find someone else is normal.

It would be sign that something isn't right in your relationship if it becomes a huge insecurity that you dwell on, or it was a insecurity about a specific person. IE "I think jane might leave me for john." If either of these two are the case, I think it is your intuition telling you soomething.

However, it sounds like simply the little guy in the back of your head putting uncomfortable thoughts in your mind, which is perfectly normal. This is usually because you know all the things you find attractive about her, but have no idea what she necesarily finds great about you.

Don't worry about it.

Peace

 

Who cares, if she is than more power to ya brother