someone help! (im new ere)

me n my man have been togethr for sometime and madly in love but wen it comes down to having sex for some reason it hurts like mad.. i hate getin fingered and its annoying coz i really want to and i am turnd on but no matter wot he does it just really hurts. i cant allow him to go in and its just gettin worse. we've tried a couple of tims and the same thing hapns. hes more experiencd wer as im still a virgint. is ther something wrong with me or does anyone no n e tricks or things that can help???

 

My girlfriend was a virgin too. I didnt have any other experiencesat all before. It took as about 3-4 months to have sex. She used to hurt so much and i couldnt get inside. I used to finger her, with one finger for start and after some time(month+) i put 2 fingers. Her pussy slowly opened, but very slowly. All this time we also tried to make love, without success. After 3 months i managed,finally, to put 3 fingers inside my girl. Unfortunately she bleeded. She bleeded as well when i put 2 fingers. Anyway, after some days, we managed to make it happen! But the 1/4 of my penis could get in her.

You say that if u are fingered you hurt bad. I suggest you to try open your pussy by ur self, dont expect from him. Inside your room, someday, get fingered yourself. That way u wont hurt. For some days do that, and when ur pussy opens up a little, go for him!

U remind me my girlfriend, she used to hurt badly. Maybe this will take a lot of time.. but dont worry, sooner or later it will happen.

 

I used to have this problem, but i wasn't a virgin, i had, had sex with 2 guys previous. And at first the sex was fine, but then it just started to hurt really bad and i couldn't have it with him, until i got the issue sorted.

I think it depends, i know why now, that it happened because of things in the past. So i don't know if anything in the past has happened to you, thats maybe making you tense up and hurt you more.

Other then that, just have lots of foreplay, relaxe, make sure you're comfortable with doing it, and go slowly. Maybe, when you're alone you could try masturbating and see if it hurts when you do it. Just try one finger and so on once it feels okay.

 

I had the same problem.
NOw everything is great!