Orgasms and my girlfriend

Friends,
I am a new member and I have a few questions ...

1. When making love, my girlfriend reaches orgasms very quickly. Like when I am licking her down or sucking her fingers or playing with her breasts or massaging her in between the legs or kissing her neck. A lot of times I have to stop doing what I am doing because I dont want her to reach. She keeps telling me that it is my touch that makes her reach so quickly ... Is this normal?

2. How many orgasms can an average woman reach in one session of 45-60 mins?

Thanks in advance

 

why wouldn't you want her to reach orgasm?

 

"I say she fakes" ... She is definitely not faking because after she reaches orgasms she takes a few minutes break. We are in a relationship for a long time and I know her very well now.

"why wouldn't you want her to reach orgasm?" ... Our session lasts for 45 minutes average. She reaches about 4-6 times. I really like playing (caressing/touching/kissing/licking etc) with her body. But the problem is she reaches orgasms and that cuts short our love making session. This is the reason why I dont let her reach quickly.

Is her reaching quickly normal?

To all the women on this forum ... How much time would it take you to reach orgasms?

 

I come fast, and often, and many many times in each lovemaking session. Some women are lucky that way! If you want it to last longer, go softer and slower. Just barely touch her with your fingers or your tongue. think light and fluttery, and move real real slow. Build it up. Have you ever tried tantric yoga? It's REALLLLL good....

 

mamaboogie,
Thanks for the response. Are you referring to TANTRIC SEX or TANTRIC YOGA?

Can you please provide some links.

Thanks in advance.

 

At least she reaches it - alot of women dont

It varies on how many you can have in 45 mins - but the amount she is having she is proberly faking a few - believe me we are getting good at faking LOL

 

Just asked my gf, she reckons about 7 or 8.

 

I have never once in my life faked an orgasm nor would I.. That's where good communication comes into play.. I get off very easily, sometimes 5 minutes other times 30 seconds..The wetter I get the more I get off.. Masturbating alone I got off 10 times within 40 minutes and had to stop because my hand was tiring out.. So she could very well be telling the truth..

Dude, be glad you're giving her some pleasure..

 

Yes, you're lucky she's so orgasmic. I would cherish that trait of hers rather than try to alter it, if I were you.

 

I don't think she's faking it. Why bother? If my partner can't get me off, I see no need to make him think he did. It's not like it's happened more than once or twice that I couldn't come. Most women who feel a need to fake it, only fake one orgasm, not multiples.


tantric yoga = tantric sex Look into it. Get a book from the library. It's the bomb.

 

Its nice that you can please her. But ur problem is that you aren`t very please by your love making(cuz of its short duration). Well, give her the opportunity to try and please you: make love to you(she moves,not u), oral sex etc I think, that way you`ll be able to know each other better.
My problem is that my girlfriend is very shy!! She`s embarassed to take a blowjob,( but when she does it, she does it soooo well!!! ), try new things ..etc..