i've been giving my bf hand jobs for a while now, i don't mind doing it and sometimes it can get him off. but it's starting to get a little repetitive and boring. for me, and probably for him too. what are some things to do to mix it up a little (with just the hands) besides the up and down, massaging and all of the normal stuff? i just need some tips or new things, or little tricks any of you do. and for guys.. what feels good for you when getting a hand job?
I hate getting hjs...... its nothing compared to doing it yourself... However.... some things you CANT do on your own...
do things with the other hand on other parts of his body, ie: in ass, fondle balls, as he's coming, pinch a nipple. Also you have a mouth, use it - all over! There is no such thing as "just the hands," in sexual experimentation. Remember that his penis has been protected from germs and viruses all day by his pants, has had only very sterile water passing through it (urine), and you're prob going to have a few in a lot more easily infected place than your mouth in the next 40/50 yrs. Try it and enjoy. You are a woman!!!!
Maybe using lotions, or making your hands cold for a quick minute,(ice cubes) may add some excitement!! Or maybe you could try giving him oral sex...He'd love it, and It is a lot of fun!!!
I second. Handjobs are definitely not boring at all. I've always enjoyed receiving them. It is a special feeling to know she is touching you in that way for the sake of your pleasure(and hers, I'd say).
My girlfriend and i used to do handjobs before started having sex. After that, we do oral and natural sex.. But handjobs arent boring i could say, if the girl is using her mouth properly
exactly, ;lol. BUt if the poster would like my opinion i would say twisting kinda moving circular as well as up and down and idk just a little mouth wouldnt hurt
hj's are good but theres not too much you can do to mix them up, why not get him to reciprocate the favour for you if its boring you?
I've never really given my boyfriend a hj cause obviously he can probably do it better! I think I would feel slightly embarassed that I was crap whereas when I gave him a bj I feel sexy and love it!
umm yeah, my boyfriend totaly perfers oral than hand jobs just becasue he thinks that doing it himself is better becasue thats what he is used to when we cant have sex...speaking of BJS...what else can u do while giving head that could possibly make it more fun for the girl.n.i always feel liek i am doing it wrong, but he hasnt complained or anything....??? so i need new sugeestions on making it feel more pLeasurable