My last boyfriend left me for a myspace homewrecker. We have a kid together, we live together, and it's hard seeing someone you love talk on the phone with this new girl goin,"I love you baby" and "Did I tell you you're sexy today?" And.. then say he's taking your kid to go see the new myspace homewrecker. And then you kind of have to live with that and it's HORRIBLE. . . and it's worse when you know they treat the new girl better. And the fact that we were engaged, sucks more. So today I got called a pathetic excuse for a woman, and I was told I'm dumb and every woman in my family is dumb because there was sexual harrassment in some parts of my family. Yeah. I want to move. This is a very disturbing breakup.
I doubt he'll treat the new girl better for long. The grass always looks greener on the other side, but it rarely is (unless it's over a septic tank or something, then it just stinks anyways). At least you didn't waste your best years on this guy. You have your whole life ahead of you.
Myspace is the devil...I'm thoroughly convinced. Sounds like the guy was a deuchebag, anyway...consider yourself lucky he didn't do this to you ten years from now...leaving you with MORE responsibility...and only half of your money. Good luck, sweetie...keep your chin up.
what an asshole! doesn't he realize that he's hurting you by doing this? do you have anywhere to go because if you can move, then get out of there before you become an emotional mess. we're here for you sis!
((((((bighugs)))))) Don't listen, try not to dwell on it..When you can manage that. Time does heal. Take care of yourself..Remember, the best revenge is living well.
You can come live with me. =P The best thing you can do is tell yourself that you're just too good for an asshat like that and be there for your kid. Don't down him or the new woman infront of your kid....speaking from experience....it messes with the kids head (Both my parents did it when they divorced). You're not a pathetic person. Neither are the women in your family. He's a pathetic excuse for a male. I'm sorry this happened to you, and you can PM me if you need a shoulder on which to cry.
Hmmm..got into a debate about myspace with my woman recently...she got slightly jealous (out of character) about some "friends" who had signed me on...I told her the truth, that I've not made ONE single comment that could be considered flirtatious and such, nor have any of the women in question done so with me. I don't add the typical myspace bikini posing chicas, you know? Only people with common interests, and hooking up is not on my agenda. She realized I was genuine about the whole thing. I'm mainly on there to meet like-minded people and establish a network of folks who can help my band out when we're on the road, and to stay in touch and reestablish contact with old friends. Any relationship is only as strong as the individuals in it, so I can't really blame a networking tool like myspace for the cheater's innate character flaw. Modern tools like myspace just make it easier for cheaters to do what they've been doing for thousands of years. My opinion is that the duder you were with wasn't "the one" for you, so good riddance. Difficult and painful? Yes, of course, but let him run off with his floosie and you'll end up with someone with real integrity. Be chill mama. Everything will be cool, dig?
What the other posters said .... ditto. He won't treat her right for long, and you're lucky to have found out now than later. MySpace ...I dont trust. Ultimately its cuz he was like that anyway, gonna cheat sooner or later. Its over with. Hurray for you! Next, LEARN FROM IT. Patterns tend to repeat, but not as much if we become aware. You have your life in front of you. Go for it! By the way, you ARE too good for him. Pamper yourself.
you're better off without that loser. it really sucks that he wasnt man enough to be faithful to you and make a stable home for you and your baby, but you know what? you dont need his kind of bullshit.
First off, I'm very sorry you had to go through that. Well, I don't believe MySpace is responsible for the event, however, I DO believe the way it all happened should be regarded as a good example of how uncompassionate, irresponsible, un-genuine, and insensitive he can be. I'm sorry to sound like I'm assuming too much... But seriously, you don't deserve this kind of treatment, and neither does your child(I'm actually quoting someone else, but anyway...). Even in the midst of this shitty situation though, the good thing is that at least this happened NOW rather than, say, 10 years from now which probably would've been MUCH harder, with your kid being older and the whole nine yards. To put it bluntly, the guy is no good. It is terrible that you've had to endure the pain of the breakup, and to further have to put up with his being insensitive around you... But it also IS a relief because you're no longer in a relationship with this...for the lack of a better word, schmuck. You can now move on, take your child with you, and live a happier life. Best of luck to you! ::AT:: P.S. Moon flower's right, though... Avoid dissing him or the other girl in front of your kid at all costs. She's explained why already, but it tends to be quite true that it has negative effects on the child mentally. Good luck!
I'm sure he will treat the new chick just as bad as he treated you. Users and players end up alone and miserable in the end. I just looked at your pics-trust me he's an ass hole. Apply for child support and see how much money he has left to be online all day n night.
a good test of a man is if he can be single inbetween girlfriends. in this case, despite your child and engagement, your next 50 years will probably be alot better then they wouldve been. this is a moment to rejoice.
