Moral Conflict... help!!!

I am suddenly having a moral conflict about my weed habit. It is completely random and makes me quite angry. I started thinking that its bad and I shouldn't do it anymore, but I never thought this before! The thing is that part of my really likes it and actually thinks it is good for one to do. The other part of me (probably the part brainwashed by society) feels likes its bad and I don't need it and I shouldn't do it. Ahhhh!!! What am I going to do???

 

some people have a moral objection to it, and that cant be fought

but weigh its effects on you, has it damaged your life at all, are you in any way harmed by doing it, if not then its fine, but if so, then yeah you should stop

but dont let the bullshit you see in commercials influence you
its up to you really in the end though, theres nothing anyone on here can do to read your mind and tell you where you're at and where you should be

 

I know... I wish someone could just know me and tell me what's right.. but haha yeah.. so what I really want to know is just what everyone else thinks. If you smoke, then why? And if you don't, also why? This would greatly help me decide what I wanna do. Thanks.

 

If you think you should stop... then stop. Is it interfering with anything? The final decision is up to you... just take the time to think about it..

 

organize your ideas - write down the exact reasons why you think weed is good vs why weed is bad. then decide.

 

^^Bingo, a simple pro vs cons comparison will answer the question.

 

Well, the OP is probably still going to feel some moral qualms regardless of her decision, but I've always found organization really helps me get rid of those annoying impulse feelings. That way, at least, you can maybe try to find ways to fix the cons (if you want to stop) or achieve the pros (if you want to keep going) through other mediums - new hobbies, sports, whatever.

Also, you could just your smoking habits a bit - if you usually smoke alone, smoke with some friends, or vice versa. Change up the activities you do when you're high - I know when I just sit around and eat for a night, I feel not only bloated but rather unhappy in the morning. Do something rad with your high once in a while, I bet it will help too .

Good luck! If you want you can post your pros vs cons here, we'll help you sort 'em out too .

 

who cares

 

^^ lol, i dunno, she asked so i figure what the hell why not help someone

 

you think any of this doubt may be from your recent breakup?

 

two sides of te brain conflicting - one side critisises, the other side praises.

the healthy state is when the two sides agree. when they dont, youll get stuck and have conflicting emotions that will fuel and reinforce eachother.

 

what recent breakup?

 

I believe he confused you with peacelovebarefeet

 

haha ohh.. ok

 

sorry thought it said peaceloveandbarefeet...

 

if you like doing something, and it makes you feel good, and in this case, it's much less harmful than many other habits, I say put your moral worries aside. If you simply cannot ignore the moral conflictions, though, then you shouldn't torture your mind. too much strain, and it could snap.....