my boyfriend recently mentioned that he would like for me to ride him. I am hesitant to do this because he is very thin and I am a little on the large side. Any tips?
actually, that works better than if he's the larger one - less to straddle, your legs don't have to go so far. just make sure you tell him that he NEEDS to tell you if you hurt him at all
I'm heavier than my husband and we've never had a problem with girl on top positions... just keep your weight off him by staying on your hands and knees...this will also help you gage how deep a penetration you're comfortable with in this position..hope this helps... have fun!
you are freaking hot..Kaleigh can she come too? OP-I've never worried about that even when I was heavier, though I like bigger guys but my last long relationship I was getting up there towards his weight in the end. I found it kinda funny actually but it intimidated him or something he said...hah anywho I mean he obviously is with you and wants ya so yeah... I worry about how I look ect but every girl does...just go at it sister. unless you're like 600 pounds I doubt you'll be hurting him
My girlfriend is larger than me and often goes on top. No problem, great position, you get real deep penetration.
You are not actually riding but are straddling him by supportting yourself on your hands and knees, this way you go back and forth/up and down. If you sit on him like he was a chair then yeah you might hurt him but don't worry he has a mouth and will tell you that it is hurty hurty yucky yucky. So I take it you don't sit on his face?
Love it when she is on top for many reasons: (1) Kinda makes mine seem bigger (2) less work (3) love to hold onto her ass (4) long hair in my face (5) holding her hands looking into her eyes (6) Im a dork
I weigh a few pounds more than my boyfriend (it was almost ten for a little while) and while I'm not so sure that counts as being so much heavier than him, the only reason me on top has never completely worked is because I have problems bending my legs the way they need to be...not because they won't bend that way, but because if certain extremities of mine get bent just right (in completely normal, natural ways, mind you), it sends pain shooting all over the limb that did the bending. If that makes any sense at all. But that's just me and my weird ass. I really like being on top, though, and if I can work around the joint thing, I'm great. I figure that you probably shouldn't have any problems, especially if he knows it's okay to let you know that you need to shift a little if it starts hurting.
just have fun dear. follow the flow. i'm sure you've seen it somewhere before...and use condoms if you dont want stds or kids.
I'm definitely bigger than the guy I last rode, and he fucking loved it anyway. But damn, it feels so much better than missionary. Go with it, girl. Sex is all about exploring and having fun.
My wife is also hesitant to ride me. We actually tried this position a couple of times but she jumped off quickly. She is taller and heavier than me and now that she's gotten pregnant she's bound to gain more weight. Sometimes I beg her 'please get on top' but she can't...she likes missionary and doggy. Not that I want her to do work, but as she becomes heavier this position will become invaluable. Besides, sometimes I'd love to see her in control, hold her waist and enjoy the moment. I hope when she realizes we just need that position to remove pressure from her stomach, she'll do more... I think you should get used to it. You will *need* this position at some point and I think you'll like it
i rode this one guy all the time. It actually gave me more energy and you get more feeling than if he's on top. did you tell anyone about the wind-up? i think that'd be hilarious!
My girl is very petite and she likes to be on top once in a while. The problem is, she can't bring herself off this way. She lingers for a long time just short of orgasm and can't seem to bring it on. I let her dangle at the brink for a while and then I pump her hard from the bottom. It's like she's rideing a bucking bull. She has to hold on for dear life. When she cums, she writhes and squeels and flops around like a rag doll until she finally collapses on my chest. We love to experiment with different positions and senarios.
My girls a little thick, but I'm a strong dude. I love when she rides me, and for me not being a big dude (dick wise = average) I make her squirm...lol. I literally pick her up and down on my dick from her under arms like a rag doll...lmao...she goes crazy.
