who just showed up at my house was either a guy with a REALLY girly voice or a girl with REALLY hairy legs.... I can't figure it out.. does it weird you out when you can't tell if someone is male or female??
Maybe it was Pat from SNL... That's what I call people when I am unsure of their genitalia. Pat, because it can go either way.
does it weird you out when you can't tell if someone is male or female?? No, what weirds me out is that I wrote a post about this subject 6 months ago and had someone spew on me about why it should matter. I like how when I say it then it causes international incedent but when you say it you get a sweet little response. I feel so loved.
Well I thank you. I couldn't think of where it would be though. I have written a lot of posts since then lol.
This guy was showing me a caravan once that was for rent.After he'd given me the tour of the site he then showed me the progress of his breasts - by lifting up his t-shirt - he told me he was on eastrogen - what could I say? Congratulations I guess.I was weirded out by that - mainly because I was only there to find out about the caravan
i think often I have a kindred spirit with them, because a lot of people can't tell with me. anyhow its all a social concept S
It makes me feel awkward. Especially when I'm with Daniel because he's very polite and usually says, "Thank you, (Maam/Sir)," and I know he's going to say whichever comes to mind first, and what if he gets it wrong? You don't want to offend someone, you know? A few weeks ago, we were getting gas and the gas station attendant had a manicure, lipstick, and long hair, but a light mustache (which very well could just be normal female facial hair), very hairy arms, and a very masculine voice. Talk about confusing! But usually I just try not to make it a situation that could turn out embarassing. Just be as polite as possible without bringing gender references into the picture, and go on with life. Haha, today my friend took my boyfriend and I out for Chinese and the waitress called us girls, then guys. It was way too funny. Because my boyfriend and our friend both have goatees and while our friend had hair longer than mine, he was still undeniably male. There's no question that Daniel's a male, lol. And I don't think I'm exactly a masculine girl...so...I think she was just flustered. I thought it was funny, though.
It doesn't weird me out really, but it kind of confuses me. Like, I'm a woman, and I love looking like a woman, I would never want to resemble a guy. If I did, I'd try and make myself look more feminine because, well, I'm a woman!
Hehe, yeah, me too, but that's probably because I don't come upon groups of girls much. I'm kind of a tomboy in the friend aspect...Don't really hang out with girls, lol. But yeah, that reminds me, even with my few girl friends, I call them, "You guys."