...Hi, a question to start off my new membership...ha...For the ladies..

Okay, So I should start by saying I'm a curious 15 year old girl. And well, I'm not going to say I'm ashamed of my sexuality. But I do apologize if this is a little, 'taboo'. For the ladies...

So, this is about masturbation!!! (giggles) And my question is, how do you achieve an orgasm? I mean, I read about it and hear about it- and it said it's this wonderful feeling of like feeling like your hot and cold and then like exploding.. But I've never had that feeling before... (I do 'cum' though... But I don't know if you would call it an orgasm...) So, first quesiton is- is there something wrong with me? And, if not, what should I do? Is there some like secret that I'm unaware of? Again, I apologize if this isn't appropriate...But I feel as if most people here are pretty openminded. So, sorry if I offend you, but what can I say, I'm a curious teenager.. Thanks for listening all! (And maybe give me some hints????...lol... ) Thanks...
__________________

 

Well, since I'm a guy, I can't really tell you how to achieve orgasm, but I can tell you this: Don't worry about offending anyone! Masturbation is in no way taboo on Hip Forums, and I would like to think that it isn't anywhere else either. Don't worry, we love masturbation here and all over the world. Masturbating is way more common than not masturbating. Despite was some people may tell you, masturbation is amazing common.

 

taboo on these forums? where? where?

 

All I have to say about masturbation is that it's fun fun fun fun fun fun fun fun fun fun fun fun fun fun fun fun fun fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

hmmm....at 15 i had already had orgasms....BUT i didn't know what it actually was till a few years later...if you're in a pool...and there's those jets...that shoot out the water...if you place yourself correctly on it...it tickles down there...then it tickles more...then it feels good...then the sensation becomes too strong...and you have to move off of it....that's after you orgasm....
you can orgasm by masturbation, it just takes practice....when i was your age, i didnt know how to make myself come...i just touched myself cuz it felt good...
dont be afraid to explore yourself. touch every part of your vaginal area...it all feels good. the more you practice, the more you'll learn to pleasure yourself. and it all helps tremendously when it comes to sex! dont be afraid to put your fingers inside either...that feels good too.
once you orgasm, you'll know it, and you'll be hooked, lol. from your post...i dont know if you have experienced it yet...but just..listen to your body...do what feels good...even if it feels like it's too much....that's the best part...

 

Well, my first thoughts on this thread are as follows

- You've heard of an earth shattering orgasm that is supposed to rock your world....

well, all orgasms are different, for every person, so if yours isnt as orgasmic as you had thought, its proably because people have told you lies, an orgasm is just an orgasm... just like you dont really see fireworks when you have your first kiss .
learn to love what you have, its a beutiful thing, but it wont change the world

 

When I masturbate it's usually with a dildo, and I use a vibrator on my clit at the same time. Sometimes I can do it with just the vibrator. And sometimes (very rarely) I can do it with just my fingers.

Every orgasm I have is different. They're generally more intense if I have them during intercourse, though. But from what I've gathered, an orgasm for a man is pretty much the same every time, whereas for a woman it varies every time. Some are intense, some are more like a sigh, some make me giggle, some make me cry. (I didn't mean to make that rhyme. Heh.)

I don't know if I have any tips for you, really, since at 15 you're not old enough to go to the stores that sell vibrators. But you can always try an electric toothbrush, I've heard those work fairly well. It also helps if you're horny before you start touching yourself, rather than touching yourself to get horny. I like to read erotic stories (reading stories turns me on a LOT more than watching porn videos. Most porn videos are just funny if you ask me).

 

pay attention to the little man in the boat
and just try new things, eventually you will find out what feels best to you!