violated

my ex/estranged/dont-know-what-to-call-him-because-we're-separated-but-were-getting-back-together husband went thru my personal files on the computer

i'm ready to throttle him

i feel like i've been raped

 

Hmm....I'd seriously reconsider that "getting back together" thing...

 

yikes lady, reconsider the getting back together... this doesnt seem to be a good kind of "getting back together"

 

I third the reconsideration of the getting-back-together thing. Trust issues don't make for good relationships.

 

That's the trouble with the whole "getting back together" thing.. one partner always suggests laying all old secrets and stuff on the table..

And the motives for that are very rarely honourable..

It feels like rape becasue it IS a kind of rape.. Well, violation IS a clsoe description, but he's dug inside for things before, if you were ever, ready to tell him.

 

Kick his lame ass to the curb

 

i still cant believe that he did it in the first place

grrr

 

erghhh I hate privacy violations. everyone I've been with I have caught going through my cell phone or my computer, my suitcase it's really a yucky horrible feeling. If you don't trust me then treat me better and they'll be no reason not to trust me don't go through my shit.

 

Seems to me you are with him why????

 

Go through the files in his pants and write out a letter of extreme dissatisfaction on a man part. This was not intended to be helpful to anyone but me. Bellfire in selfish mode day.