i just need to know

i'm seriously not asking for any type of flattery or anything cos it will only make me feel worse...so just answer this question on your own personal experiences
i just need to know if this is normal or healthy or..whatever..


do you have like..constant (and i mean constant) feelings of just..self...loathing
extreme self conciousness
like...nothing you can do about it-don't want to leave the house-always paling in comparison-why,god,why-self conciousness...


maybe its just me



but anyway...thats what i need to know

yes or no
and elaborate if you wish.

 

not i. but i suspect it is different for women and metrosexuals...

but really, i've met very few chicks with positive self-esteem.

 

yea your not alone.... I go through spunks where I feel pretty... other times Im constantly trying to make myself pretty and make myself like myself so other people will like me.. I need to grow outta this funk.. drives me bonkers

 

i don't but thats just me

 

i dont. i'm sad sometimes like that. but not constant.


i know someone who is. i made her go to therapy. she only went once though..

 

Actually, I find it really attractive when I find that one girl with enough self-esteem to not ask questions pertaining to these matters, because it is really rare.

 

i love me

 

Eh, I have insecurites that eat away at me on a daily basis ... but I just supress them into my ego and go on with my daily life.

 

I've felt like that for years hun, so i know exactly what you mean.... it can be so hard...but keep your chin up because you are a beautiful person..

 

I feel like that sometimes, but not usually because of my appearance...I'm worried I'll be a nervous fuck and embarass myself, or that I'm not funny, or something like that. Well, sometimes it's about my appearance. Most of these feelings are part of my depression/anxiety though. And it's been happening way less lately...

 

sometimes ill be talking to someone that's somewhat popular and i usually think "why the hell do they want to talk to me?"... and i get right embarressed and usually just walk away

i think it has stunted my ability to make friends... and girlfriends... lol

 

I'm sooo self conscious.
You can always tell when I am too because I'll play with my hands and not look anyone in the eye.
I hate when people watch me while I'm walking too, I'll try so hard to walk 'normal' that I'll just start walking weird.

 

hahaha... i walk weird sometimes 2.. but its not because im self-conscious, its just sometimes when i concentrate on my walking instead of walking naturally ill walk super weird like a heroinoman.

 

Haha that's exactly it

 

oh my god mee too
on all those things
haha..

 

Why would you assume people won't like you though?

 

Hahah my friends call me Salad Fingers when I fiddle with my hands, cause I have long fingers

 

hahaha aww

 

i can't help it.