Hey everyone. Ive been fallin on some hard times with the lady and I've got noone to talk to about it so i figure someone here will listen. She's been real crazy lately. just flippin out on me for no apparent reason and changing like everything about herself and things she wants, and she keeps sayin shell leave me, but we always work it out, though it happens on a regular basis and is really stressing me out. I can't leave this girl, she is amazing unless shes mad, but I feel like things are going downhill, and everytime i find a way to get things back up she just finds ways for em to go downhill again. I love this girl with all my heart and I know she does too, but I need something to keep this alive.
what is love in ur opinion? In my opinion , love is not hurting the one u love. Ask her what she is mad about? I think when women are flipping out , there is usually a reason. Any girl, in any age wants stable, steady relationship...if she is like this, either something really bugs her about u, or she has some emotional issue
Drop her, dude! Believe me , it is going to get worse and you may have already been dropped yourself. Or you can learn the hard way and keep trying, prying, and crying. Ain't worth it. Glad I checked this forum, tho: Elena, you're gloriously good looking!! Wow.
I too suggest figuring out what is going on with her. There could be something that she is going through that you just don't know about. She could be depressed or angry about something and just lashing out on you because you are the closest person to her at this point. I find that when I'm mad sometimes I lose my temper with Jeremy and pick a fight with him. He does the same with me when he hasn't gotten enough sleep. But we both realize that it isn't each other that we are mad at and we apologize and mend the situation. But we don't really flip out bad on each other either so it isn't a big deal. What exactly does she do? If it is along the lines of being abusive, I'd be very careful how much further you remain in the relationship. Because you won't be doing her any favors by being a "punching bag" either. If she needs help, then help her find it. But there is only so much you can do and so much you can take. Good Luck.
